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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]A couple times I've asked him to sit out when he makes comments such as that. When it's something small I'll say "that's inappropriate, we don't use that kind of language, what other words can we used instead?" I offer about 90% positive reinforcement and 10% corrective. Been with the kids 6 mos and haven't noticed any improvement in him either way.[/quote] It sounds like you're doing it wrong. 6 months without progress and you haven't formed at least one, ought to have been two or three, new techniques yet? He is too old for the "what other words can we use instead" nonsense - you say, ONCE, "that is inappropriate language. this is your warning, you know I expect you to use appropriate words." if he says anything again, time-out, loss of privileges, extra chores, whatever. Why have you not spoken to the parents about doing this?? It's not going to get better unless YOU help fix it.[/quote]
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