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[quote=Anonymous]Smug? I purposely moved my son closer to this woman just so I could hear better and listen. I pretended to take pics of my son so I could take pics of the girl. I preferred to  not be involved. It was my only free time for the whole day since I'm a sahm w out any help.

I'm staying up late dealing w this when I could have ignored the whole thin like another person there.

I think calling the police would be overkill and kind of crazy. In fact, I witnessed an farina n lady smack her kid at a chuck e cheese in Alexandria (never going there again,) and my friend mentioned there's not much u can do about it. It's nt illegal to hit your children, although its not what I practice.

I can't imagine telling a police person that a nanny forced a girl to sit on a bench by squeezing her arm, didnt blot her nose, or was mean to her. Although I believe it's verbal abuse, I health don't believe any laws were broken.

Also, I can't tell another person how to care for their children- whether that's a nanny, au pair, or mother. I can't say, hey, you can hold her differently  or   I don't think that's nice to say "hit yourself."

I also considered the woman could be the mother. I discussed this on the other board. My reasoning why I didnt think so was that the children did not seem to be siblings based on looks or behavior. Neither children referred to the woman as mom/mommy.  Children were dressed different. Children may have only been a year or less apart. It's hard to tell. I only have an older 2 year old myself and children grow at different rates.

The woman looked young and was Eastern European. Tight teal top w cleavage, royal blue cardigan/blazer, dark wash jeans, very thin. Thinner than me and I'm 128 and 5'8.

I could be wrong and perhaps she is the mother. In that case I feel even worse for this poor girl. Bc she has no hope then, she will live like this her entire childhood. Bc legally, a mother can do that unfortunately. But if it was a nanny or au pair, then the mom can step in and get rid of her.

Btw, my best guy friend married an au paid form Lithuania and its my understanding they prefer to date and marry within their own race. The little girl was quite dark. She could be full african American.  My close friend married a man from Kenya and their child is much fairer. My sister as well married an african americna man and both their children are fairer.

Neither child seemed to resemble the woman in facial features, skull shape/size, or coloring,

Lastly, if she is a single mom of 2, she likely needs to to work and wouldn't be a sahm doing the park thing at 1pm. But maybe she can manage pt. I don't know. No wedding ring.

Ok, I've done all I can. I stayed up until very late and I need to get up early. I will check back in a week to see if anyone thinks this may be their au pair or nanny. Feel awful for this poor girl. Life is just not fair. [/quote]

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