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[quote=Anonymous]Hi, I had this whole long story typed out but I'll just get straight to the point. My MB is driving me insane! My MB is a SAHM and I work full time 7am-7pm M-F and sometimes the weekend. With in that 12 hour time frame my MB is with us (or just me) for 11-12 hours (sometimes 10 hours if I am lucky and she goes run an errand without us). I don't even get a break when my charge goes down for a nap because she comes and "hangs out" with me. My whole work day is spent with my MB literally right besides me. I am not even exaggerating this by any stretch of imagination. Frankly, I don't know what to do. I used to love my job. I care for a 22 month old boy since he was a newborn. He is the sweetest, smartest, and funniest little boy I ever had the pleasure of caring for. And MB worked full time so I never ran into this issue before. But MB's job ended and she doesn't start a new job until this fall (if she does at all).

I was just wondering if there is a way I could make this work. My guess right now is no but I thought I could come on here for advice. I am just looking for a way to bring this up to her and not cause hard feelings especially since I do not want to quit. But mentally I can't take it much more. Now my charge is starting to disregard my authority because his mom will "override" me and let him do things that he knows he is not supposed to. The combo of everything is becoming too much. I just don't know what to do anymore. If you work in an office setting, imagine your boss in your cubicle or office from the time you punch in until the time you punch out. I am sure you would go bonkers as well!

And before others suggest that I tell her to go nap or that I go take my charge to the park or what have you, that does not work. She just either makes up excuses not to leave or just joins us to where ever we go. lol I just have to laugh as I type that because it sounds so insane. I mean, the other day, she had me go with her to meet with her friends! Talk about awkward!! Sorry, I know this all sounds like 1 big rant but I really would love suggestions on how to bring up this topic. Should I bring it up with both parents or just her? How should I word it? Any suggestion on how to break the news gently would help a ton! Thank you in advance. [/quote]

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