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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm starting to feel like they don't truly trust me with there child...I've been working with my 7 month old charge since December. They choose me out of I believe 10 other people. My question is why go threw all this if you're not gonna to trust the person you're leaving your child with. The mom tries to treat me like I have no clue how to care for her child like I don't know what she likes and dislikes, don't know how to make her bottle and etc. With her oldest child whom I'm going to be taking care of during the school year she will not let go and let me sart getting him ready in the morning she has to control everything and I don't get how she expects this to work when I will be in charge of him if she won't let go. Today the baby was christened and I was invited it, when I held my charge she insisted on hovering over me watching me every move in front of all her friends and family. I wonder if its a race issue because I'm black and she's white. Some of guests were completely rude and treated me as the help the whole time. Tommorow I had a very important event to go to five minutes driving from her home and since I could not reschedule I asked to take my charge with me.  Since i dont drive my grandma would take us. she knows her very well. She told me she would discuss it with DB and get back to me. Today they tell me they're not comfortable because of putting her carseat in the car. UMmmmm Hello I'm fully capable of putting your child in a carseat and buckling her in the car. I won't kill her on a five minute drive. I clearly have experince doing this atuff qith kids. To me I'm insulted. What to do?????[/quote] Playing the race card or assuming that is why she is micromanaging isn't going to do any favors for you. Why do you feel he need to throw out and use it? At the end of the day she choose you out of 10 people. I'm thinking its just who she is. In that case instead of hblinf talking will do you any help. Get reall. Start looking for a new job. When you've landed one then try and talk to her. She won't change though she waiting to see that is a waste. Then after you talk to her throw her that bombshell an move on to your new job! She sounds horrid! If you stick around you're allowing this![/quote]

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