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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This feels like a post trying to stir up drama, but I'll answer you anyway. Since my child will be going to daycare two days a week I'd hardly consider that spending "more waking hours with my charges" my fil will take the baby half a day a week and she'll come to work with me my two short hour days. Lots of parents work full time while their kids are in daycare, the fact that I work and spend time with other children doesn't bother me.[/quote]

OP here- I think the forum is too riddled with bitterness if you read my post and immediately thought I was trying to start drama. Far from it.

Anyways your situation is unique because your child comes to work with you two days out of the week (which as you said is a short day to begin with), and a half day that is definitely not what I am referring to.

My situation- my child is an infant, I don't think she should be in daycare now because I have heard countless stories of infants just being left to lay on their backs all day. My cousin takes care of her. I used to think the same thing, "well lots of moms work and have a nanny", for example. But recently since she has been sleeping through the night, by the time I get home 7:30-8:00, she is only a wake for an hour maybe two, then off to bed. Then I leave before she wakes and my spouse takes her to our family's home. So yes I spend more waking hours with my charges than my child, and I feel really guilty.

(If she spends 50 hrs a week asleep, and I spend 60 hrs/week at work or in commute, that effectively leaves 10 hours in each work week that I can spend with her, +/- 1 hour)[/quote]

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