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[quote=Anonymous]Be straightforward and honest. That entire first paragraph only needs minor tweaking to be gentle, honest, and respectful. If she's nannied before then she's had positions end and knows that's part of the business. If you're interested in still having her occasionally babysit (assuming she wants to) and you're giving her great references, lots of advance notice, and helping her find another job then I think she will understand. In terms of sustaining the relationship, talk with her about wanting to do that - including her in b'day celebrations, or having her over for dinner some time after she's left, or having her babysit, etc... Also, if you would ever ask her to stay with the kids while you and your partner are away you can talk about that too. I think you'll be fine. You are sad about this stage of life ending but that goes with the territory. If she's professional, and if she's had a solid relationship w/ you for all of this time she'll be sad also but she'll understand. And frankly, maybe there's a part of her that will enjoy having younger kids again so it may not be terrible for her (assuming she finds something good). Good luck but I think you'll be fine. [/quote]
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