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[quote=Anonymous]I've been in a similar situation with unpleasant grandparents. In my case it was a set of grandparents who used to visit for a few hours every 2-3 weeks. I usually remained cordial and kept my distance knowing what they were capable of (from hearing unpleasant stories from MB). They were only allowed over when MB or DB (preferably DB) was home because my employers were afraid of what they would say or do if left alone with me and the kids.

They were over one afternoon, and were less than pleased with how I was doing my job. They literally started to scream at me in front of the kids (who became frozen in place). After I calmly and politely, yet VERY firmly, put them in their place DB threw them out of the house.

I made it very clear to DB that I NEVER wanted to be in the same house as his parents ever again. That was 2 years ago. They no longer come over when I am at work (which must suck for them b/c they see a lot less of their grandkids now).

So, if the situation is that miserable for you I suggest having a respectful, yet firm, conversation with your employers. Explain the measures you have taken in the past to try to make the situation work, but unfortunately the visits every other month make that week very difficult for you. Be honest about how you feel when she says and does things to/about you. Ask them if they have any suggestions on to make Grandma's visits more tolerable. Let them know that you feel very strongly about not being able to continue working in a position that requires you to put up with unfounded accusations that can tarnish your reputation and other nonsense she's pulled. You've already threatened to leave if Grandma pulls such a stunt again. Be prepared to stick to your guns on this one. Having to quit would suck, but staying is not good.  [/quote]

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