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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You can ask her what she wants to do ... Either have diner by herself in her room and provide her with food ... Or let her have diner with you every night and therefore, as a member of the family she will help clean up and this family time is NOT part of her 45 hours ... Or do half half ... she can have diner alone except on some family nights where she can have diner with you all. This way you also get to get some time alone with your family and the AP doesn't feel left out ...[/quote] OP here. Option 1 is what I had in mind. Dinner is important to us so everyone sits together and helps clean up. Thus, ap will always be invited. I guess it would annoy me if she just left after eating and not participated in clean up if nothing else because it sets a bad example for my kids. Of course if she wants to eat alone to get a break from us that's perfectly understandable too and I would just have her add her food wishes to my shopping list.[/quote]
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