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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'd just mention to her that she let me know is she has guests over and who they are.[/quote] +1 Say that you would like to know when she is going to have people over and that you would like to meet any males that will be coming over to the house to hang out (or females as well). While no adult wishes to be supervised in this manner, it is your house and your property that could go missing or your kids that anyone might come in contact with. A family that I used to work for had a bad experience one time, where the nanny let her boyfriend come over all the time (usually when parents weren't home) and things started to go missing. Nanny said she didn't know anything about it, which might have been true but most likely not, and supposedly she broke things off with him. One day someone broke in and stole stuff, the nanny refused to give her ex's name to the cops for them to talk to. She got fired for this and slacking off on the job (had been for the last few weeks), left and 2 weeks later the family found out she had used stolen credit card info from them to buy $1000 worth of electronics. I had no problems having my friends meet my family the first time they came over since I understood they just wanted to feel safe knowing who I was allowing access to their house. If I didn't want to have guests meet them even for a couple of minutes, then they could meet me outside of the house and we could go elsewhere.[/quote]
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