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[quote=Anonymous]Hi. I am a PT mom with one child. I love our nanny, she is amazing with DD, couldn't have asked for a better nanny! A friend of mine whom, I can't always get together with for play dates, meets its nanny. I thought nothing of them meeting to have a play date, as its about the children. I noticed my friend slowly bu definitely has stopped agreeing to play dates if my nanny is working. She admired to me, my nanny can be annoying and when my friend asked her a couple of questions, more personal them work related, my nanny became defensive and she said it was awkward from there. My nanny is amazing with DD but she does have an authoritative demeanor. My friend I think might be intimidated by her, she's kinda meek. Should I talk with my nanny about the dynamic of their relationship? I don't want play dates to stop when I'm not there just because they don't mesh. They can be civil. DD does have other playmates but my friend is a good friend, and I don't want to get caught in the middle. I don't want my friend to think I just let my nanny make people feel insecure, defensive. I don't. My nanny is kinda old fashioned and stern and more in lines of thinking certain questions, you don't just ask as its a private matter. Wat do I say? Help! My nanny, doesn't seem to mind my friend but don't go out of her way to praise her either. She keeps anything negative about friend, to herself. [/quote]

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