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[quote=Anonymous]I have a PT nanny who lived out. She is paid on salary so gets FT pay. She does a great job with my child and when it comes to her job, I couldn't be happier. The concern lies in her outings while out with my child. There is a family down the street who have one year old as well. They recently moved in ---3 months ago. Before that my friend lived there who also had a child the same age as DD. I encouraged play dates and my nanny would have them over here and there but usually was out with her nanny friends. Then new family moved in and nanny bumped into them while taking a stroll and introduced herself and DD. They are of course looking to engage their child and encourage play dates as well. The mom works FT and the dad is a SAHM dad. Our schedules collied so I only say hi in passing but my DH and our neighbor have become acquainted and watch football together etc. I've noticed my nanny almost always takes DD to their house for play dates and I think it's become more about her motive then my child's. Anytime they have an activity they neighbor goes with them or they go to his house. Rarely do they come over to ours. I suspect something might be going on. She's spending too much time there and maybe I'm paranoid, but he never comes over not unless he's childless and my DH is here. It's usually her and my child going over there. What became a one a week thing, has now become a 3-4 times a week thing. I only know this much because another neighbor lady, a chatty Kathy brought it up and I came home twice from lunch and in passing saw nanny walking out of his house with DD. Neighbor also mentioned how nanny will take DD's car seat out and put car seat into neighbor's SUV, so that's how I know they go on outings together. Nanny will tell me if they did go on outing, but has become more vague with whom they went with. She does not know I know how she spends most of her outings.  Should I say something to nanny? I don't know what neighbors relationship with his wife is, but it is kind of suspicious she is always there now and I would prefer and will let her know, my DD's other friends miss her so she can get the hint she needs to make room for others![/quote]

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