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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If you were trying to stop this behavior like a good nanny I could tell you what you're doing wrong to exacerbate this behavior. However, it seems as though you don't care. [/quote]

Chill out. The nanny secretly enjoys knowing that the kids love her and miss her when she goes home. That's natural and so common. She's doing nothing wrong. How would she try to stop it? Tell them no hugs and no kisses? No.[/quote]

No, she could try to stop it by giving them hugs and kisses and leaving without prolonging the exit. Speak to MB about the day, hugs and kisses for the children, then say goodbye. At that point LEAVE right away and if the children beg her to stay or give more kisses she can says something along the lines of "You already got your kisses! I am leaving and will see you tomorrow morning." [b]By giving in to the children's poor behavior and allowing them more hugs and kisses than she said she would she is letting them know that if they act out she will give them more attention and take longer to leave.[/b] This is letting the children win and in my opinion, children should never be awarded for poor behavior, whining, and crying.

Also, think about how this makes the mother feel. Yes, on one hand she can rest assured that the children enjoy spending time with the nanny and have a good relationship with her but you can't tell me that this doesn't bother MB. I would never purposefully do anything that would make my MB feel bad about herself or brew jealousy between the two of us. [/quote]

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