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[quote=Anonymous]I agree w/ pp'ers.  Not to blame you, or absolve the man in any way, but you are responsible for you, and you are clearly seeing the writing on the wall.  You know the MB is nervous/jealous/suspicious.  Whether she's right or wrong to feel that way if you are aware of it you have choices.

You can choose to say it's all the DB's doing and you're totally passive, and continue to simply accept attention, conversation, wine etc...

You can choose to just go find another job.

You can choose to graciously decline any singificant interaction w/ the DB - no thanks to a glass of wine, moving to another room instead of staying to chat, etc...

You can choose to rebuild your relationship w/ MB - seek her out.  Text her during the day.  Make a point of not hanging around w/ the husband.  Perhaps even initiate a conversation where you say you feel like perhaps you and she have gotten off base and you'd like to reestablish the way things used to be, etc...

The female in these circumstances, while often not necessarily in the wrong, is rarely without the power to manage some aspects of how things happen.

You need to decide whether you're enjoying the drama and attention, or whether you want to retain this job and reestablish a good relationship with MB.  [/quote]

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