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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]He is sharing wine with you and complaining about his wife going back to work-- this is prelude to a potential affair and she is right to be jealous.  He is forming emotional intimacy, lowering your guard, and pushing to identify your boundaries.

If I was the MB, I would be very worried.  Even if she fires you, she is stuck with a husband she doesn't trust.  But, you are just the nanny, and firing you is worth a shot if it might save her marriage.

If I was you, I would back off from the friendship with DB.  No good can come of it.  Be professional, guarded, and a little cold.  Be nice to MB.  Reassure her through your actions and display of loyalty, without bringing this up.  And update your resume / keep your eye out for other opportunities, just in case.[/quote]

Logically, I know that this is more than about me... but the way she is handling it is pissing me off and the way she's so rude to me makes me want to be not so nice in return.  I guess in this case it would probably be better to quit since no amount of ass-kissing on my part is going to stop her husband's ways.  And her way of dealing with him is to take it out on me.  The more I type, the more I realize we might be past the point of return.  She got upset with me about my outfit the other day.  I was wearing a big, black turtleneck sweatshirt and some leggings with a funny pattern on them.  The boys actually loved my pants - they had a print of an old video game on them and they got a kick out of it.  She rolled her eyes when she saw me wearing them and then later on mentioned that my pants were too "sexual".  They're silly pants with tetris printed on them!  Come the fuck on!

I should just quit.  I'm just now realizing there's no way out of this.[/quote]

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