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[quote=Anonymous]It's always miserable to be dragged into someone else's relationship problems, and to have that be the case with such a major involvement as being the nanny sounds awful. Try to remember that you're an employee and your job is the kids. You're not MB's friend, you don't have to be her confidante, you're not responsible for her emotional well-being, etc... Make sure the kids are protected (maybe you could even gently say to the MB that you're very sorry she's going through this but you want to make sure that you don't convey anything to the kids that they shouldn't have to deal with and therefore it would be easier for you to do your job best if you're not privy to as much relationship info) and that you're keeping yourself emotionally protected also - as much as you're able. It might get worse. It also might get better between husband and wife which could also end up being tricky for you if MB has said too much etc... Good luck!! [/quote]
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