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[quote=Anonymous]Would you really leave the position just because one of the 3 charges (who is older and might be getting past the stage of wanting to bond with adults in a play situation) isn't taking to you? For what it is worth, he probably wouldn't connect with anyone very well. I think that as long as he is not rude to you (in a malicious manner) and he does what he needs to, that it is fine. You ARE bonding with the other 2 younger charges and that is what matters.

I understand how it can feel, I work with a 7 yr old in 2nd grade as well, he has not been diagnosed with aspergers but displays many of the same traits. While he can be very frank and at times say he doesn't like me, he also really does care about me deep inside and shows this to his mom much more than to me, when I am not around. I have been with him PT for a year, moved in with them 8 months ago. He can be hard to handle at times, sweet at others, and doesn't understand boundaries at all. But I know that I make a difference in his life, and that while he might say things when he is upset - that he would be more upset if I left.

He doesn't need to become best buddies with you, and it would be better to not push things with him. He will know that you are trying to learn more about anime to get closer to him. He would rather see you maybe learn more from him, than watch or read some on your own time and then show to him what you know.[/quote]

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