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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I had this conversation with my MB a while back. I made sure to use unemotional neutral language and asked her if she would call me by my name and not "nanny". I also noted that while her "friend/neighbor/mother" was here recently, she had asked me to fold her laundry/do the dishes/whatever she asked that wasn't my job and asked her to clarify what my responsibilities are. This forced her to reference the contract and admit she had stepped outside of it. [/quote]

^^ this poster has given you the most useful advice so far. While there is no way I would put up with this, I understand that not everyone reacts the same way. When she is ordering you to do things not in your contract you could take her aside, or wait for a quite moment and say "I'm sorry, doing X isn't part of the agreement we made when I started working for you, if you want me to do X we need to sit down and write a new contract". Also if someone called me "the nanny", I would just ignore them till they used my name. I think that is incredibly rude and disrespectful!![/quote]

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