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[quote=Anonymous]I have been working for this family close to one year now. During the interview I kind of sensed that the family was very private and suspicious about everything. I assumed that on they got to know me they would become trusting. The family acts like they think I might be up to something, and from my observation it might be a personality disorder. I am finding it very hard to work for a family that does not trust me. I do not understand why they leave me with their children if they cannot trust me. Prior to this job I worked for three other families (long term). The three families gave me the house keys and alarm codes on my first day. I remember asking the first family how they could trust a stranger with the alarm codes and credit cards but they said that they go with instincts. The second family told me the same thing so for the third family it was not unusual. With the current family, I can't even take kids anywhere cos the family prefers we play indoors on the backyard where they have hidden cameras. They also lock all the upstairs rooms - not that I have any business upstair but I just find it weird because the MB keeps giving excuses as to why they have to lock the rooms. I am starting to feel now more than ever that this is not a good fit at all. Would you quit if you felt your employer does not trust you?[/quote]

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