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[quote=Anonymous]I agree with the PPs. Your nanny has no way of knowing what is important to you unless you tell her. Not every family feels that Santa letters are a sacred thing. I take care of letters to Santa/Christmas lists. I email MB everything the children put on their lists, complete with links to make it even easier if she isn't able to find time to shop in stores. It works for us. There are times when I will mention a plan I have for the kids and she will ask me to hold off b/c it's something she or DB was looking forward to experiencing with them for the first time. We communicate and no one's toes get stepped on. It goes the other way too when I've started a special book with them...MB asks before she reads some of it with them just out of respect for my feelings. I know to ask her before doing something "new" with the kids (twins) in case it is something she wants to be part of. I'm sorry you're upset. In the future ask her to communicate her plans ahead of time regarding special things in case it's something you planned on doing. You can also be proactive about letting her know your plans as special times are approaching. [/quote]
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