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[quote=Anonymous]If she is seven she is old enough to talk through it rationally. This is just anxiety behavior and you should talk her through why she thinks it's so terrible that she messed up. Let her calm down and then lead her step by step to a rational outcome. Ex: Why are you upset? Do you think it's bad that you messed up? Why do you think it's bad? What is the worst thing that can happen? When she gives her worst case scenario, let's say that it is "she will never learn that song". Then just continue. "Ok, what if you don't ever learn that song? Then what happens?" She will realize, eventually, that it is not a big deal. [/quote]
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