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[quote=Anonymous]10:40 again, and like the PP following me, we have a very small (1800 sq ft) house. Our bedrooms are all together on one floor. Children and Ap share a bathroom. We are very, very clear about this in matching. We stress the togetherness aspect - that children are on either side of her bedroom. We stress that the bathroom is always kept neat and clean (Ds has been well-trained that he has to wipe up any - ahem - "spills"), but it is SHARED with children. Since we moved into this house, we have opted for younger APs who are used to living with their parents (and sharing bathrooms with siblings and sometimes parents) so it hasn't been a problem. Having an AP is all about compromise and being open to makeing sure someone else is comfortable and "at home." I always say that if everyone gives 110% (and I mean everyone), then we are all happy with the relationship. This approach has worked very well for us over the years.[/quote]
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