Would love to hear from OP again, I would honestly evaulate your budget and see what you can afford to do. Either way daycare/nanny for three is expensive. Do you have family in the area. You could prob get away with a raise and a 4day workweek if you could swing it. I am a nanny and for me there is no better perk than extra time off and I love my job! |
$2 and put the older child in preschool part time to give her socialization |
You're overpaying right now at $17.50/hour for one child. That's too much. With that in mind, I would raise to 20-21/hour with the addition of the twins. You have to make sure to leave room for future raises too. PS - don't listen to these nannies who are telling you ridiculous things like 25/hour. |
I'd rather you pay me what I'm worth now than hold back to give me tiny raises year after year. Doing one for $17.50 an hour is reasonable, if you add newborn twins to that and try to offer me $19.50 an hour I will just give you my two week notice. I could EASILY go find another family paying $17.50 or even better $20/hr for just 1 or 2 toddlers or older. |
I make $25 an hour right now for two. And they aren't in diapers. There is a whole spectrum of pay out there, especially in DC with the huge range on incomes, so I don't expect everyone to find $25 an hour but $17.50 is hardly overpaying for a legal worker who drives their own car and has an education... |
If the older kid is away at preschool 3-6 hours then the raise should be less. |
Why? Is nanny not going to have to care for the child when there is no school? Is the nanny not on call for sick days? Lowballing a raise because an older child is in school a few hours a week is cheap. Unless nanny is in no way responsible for the child at any time during the year for those hours, preschool doesn't affect a raise for sensible parents when they are adding newborn(s) to their family. |
Because the nanny may be responsible for a child (in addition to another child she is already on the clock for) once or twice a year she deserves money for that child???? If it is such a big deal you can add $2 an hour to the weekly paycheck for the days that additional child stayed home from school. You really make no sense Deb. |
On what planet do you live that preschool aged children are home once or twice a year for the nanny to care for? Every preschooler I've ever had first of all had a shorter school year than the elementary schoolers. Usually started a week or two after they did and were out at least 2 weeks before them in the summer. Then they have all of the major holidays off, plus several conference/in service days. Add to that at least 2 weeks for Christmas Break and 1 week for Spring Break (some places have 2 weeks) along with snow days and sick days. On top of that you have them home for the entire summer. |
That's quite a bit more work. Maybe around $25 hour at the lowest. |
You're just cheap and don't want to pay the going rate. Dog walkers get more per hour. |
Mom in a similar situation as you last year -- 2.5 yo toddler plus infant twins. We never even attempted to have 1 person care for all three until the twins approached age 1.
If you can afford it, I highly recommend a preschool or daycare for your older one. |
Yikes, no way. $25/hr is way too high. You're already overpaying at 17.50 for one child. A $7.50/hr raise for twins is way, way over market. $21 or $22/hr is still high, but more reasonable for twins.
You probably want to look into a preschool for a few hours a day for your toddler, although a good nanny should be able to handle your job, especially at such high rates. |