This is just stupid. The law defines what it means to be a parent. Neither "same biological genes" nor knowing the child best are necessary elements. |
OP here. I lost track of this discussion and have just found it again. Thanks for all the advice.
To all those trying to derail the thread and talking about exploitation; a much better way to respond to this thread would have been to tell me what you think a reasonable overnight rate WOULD be. Not to just say that others are being cheap. The only reason I am asking this question in the first place is that I worry enormously about doing the right thing by our nanny (who you will see from the OP was willing to accept $50 overnight which I did not think was anywhere near enough). |
Since when do DCUM threads not get derailed? It's very much the norm if you look around. And not just the nanny forum. |
I charge 1/2 rate while children are sleeping. Most often, 8-8 so my overnight fee would be $120, in addition to regular rate during the day. |
Seems perfectly reasonable if it works well for all. |
this is so true !!!!!!! |
If u can't afford nanny over ni don't have them , u wanna go out , party, drink and who know what more come on she is watching your KIDS don't be cheap!!!!!!!!! |
Obviously your Nanny is NEW and doesn't know better to charge less than time and a half, I think if you value her like the way you're saying then u should pay her time and a half BECAUSE let's be real, u WON'T leave your kids ALONE at night so PAY her for her time & service. |
Obviously your Nanny is NEW and doesn't know better to charge less than time and a half, I think if you value her like the way you're saying then u should pay her time and a half BECAUSE let's be real, u WON'T leave your kids ALONE at night so PAY her for her time & service. |
You should probably lay off the wine at lunch, sweetie. |
What did your nanny tell you what she wanted to be paid? |
i live in texas and will only be doing overnight from 9pm until around 7 or 8 in the morning. How much should I request I be paid? |
What would you like to earn to do the job? |
For sleeping hours, you should charge $50-$100 a night. You should earn your usual rate for all awake hours and OT if it applies, 19:36. |
Some nannies earn $150. for night duty. That's still a bargain. |