nanny stopped taking my child to the playground for 3 weeks now - scared to tell her

[Anonymous]

She says he is too cold and crying because of the cold. She used to take him outside between morning and afternoon nap but stopped before Christmas, and now it has become our new reality. I know from past experience that it is better not to tell her "what to do" since she believes she always knows what is the best for my child. What happens if I do tell her that I do not like the idea of my child being stuck inside? I do not want to upset her since she has been an excellent employee so far.

[Anonymous]

Why is “stuck inside” and being at the playground the only options?

I’m outdoorsy but I get cold at the playground. I’d rather do something where I can keep moving like go for a walk. If he had warm stuff for the stroller she can bundle him up and at least go for a walk for fresh air.
Are there libraries or recreation centers near you she could take him to?

[Anonymous]

Myself personally if it’s below 32 degrees we don’t go outside. Even when I worked in daycare that was the rule set by the state. Perhaps she is filling that. Ask her gently why haven’t they been outside lately.

[Anonymous]

*following not filling

[Anonymous]

I believe the rule is below 20F. Below 32 is still not really cold, i do not think the state would make such a silly rule. Anyway, maybe the nanny herself gets too cold, LOL

[Anonymous]

Nanny here. I take my littles out everyday and the last month we’re the only ones at the park.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:She says he is too cold and crying because of the cold. She used to take him outside between morning and afternoon nap but stopped before Christmas, and now it has become our new reality. I know from past experience that it is better not to tell her "what to do" since she believes she always knows what is the best for my child. What happens if I do tell her that I do not like the idea of my child being stuck inside? I do not want to upset her since she has been an excellent employee so far.

It's below freezing today and anything under 45° is too cold.

[Anonymous]

Did any of you read the OP?
She didn’t say today or this week. She said it’s been going on for 3 weeks now, since before Christmas. It may ir may not change your response but posting about today’s weather is not relevant.

[Anonymous]

You're the parent. She works for you. She does not know what's best.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:She says he is too cold and crying because of the cold. She used to take him outside between morning and afternoon nap but stopped before Christmas, and now it has become our new reality. I know from past experience that it is better not to tell her "what to do" since she believes she always knows what is the best for my child. What happens if I do tell her that I do not like the idea of my child being stuck inside? I do not want to upset her since she has been an excellent employee so far.

This is complete nonsense. I am assuming, because of the nap schedule, that your child is still a baby, and you don't have to worry about him climbing or walking through snow. I'm from Eastern Europe. We go outside most days and you would be laughed out of the room if you said anything below 45 is too cold. Two things are the explanation. First, your baby is not bundled up enough. Most babies are extremely happy to be outside if dressed properly. Second - more likely - your nanny does not want to go out!! This is a management problem. Tell her to bundle up and go out. It's gonna be a long winter.

[Anonymous]

How cold has it gotten where you are living at?

If it is too cold for her to walk outdoors - would you be willing to allow her to drive your child in the car to some warmer, indoor venues??

Perhaps at a library story hour or even a play area inside an indoor mall may be fun!

[Anonymous]

Too cold. Do you take your child out to play?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:She says he is too cold and crying because of the cold. She used to take him outside between morning and afternoon nap but stopped before Christmas, and now it has become our new reality. I know from past experience that it is better not to tell her "what to do" since she believes she always knows what is the best for my child. What happens if I do tell her that I do not like the idea of my child being stuck inside? I do not want to upset her since she has been an excellent employee so far.

This is alarming if you aren't a troll.

[Anonymous]

I tell my nanny what I want done. I'm the employee.

[Anonymous]

If your nanny is so scary you can't tell her to do something you need to get rid of her.