How to find a nanny/teacher for...

[Anonymous]

So, we are thinking creatively about the fall and considering forming a "nanny share" with 3 (or maaaybe 4) three and a half to four year olds. We would love to find someone with either preschool or child care experience that can structure the day for the kids and help them in particular with social skills. But I realize that's likely very difficult to find right now. The families would commit to being generally cautious about COVID, and we could pay someone very well.

I don't think that we have crazy unrealistic expectations. We have a great space for them to use with a yard, too. We wouldn't ask them to do any housework-type stuff, but of course they'd need to help the kids get ready for nap, etc. No diapers--all kids are potty trained and know each other from preschool, so they are all used to "school." The priority is someone that could manage 3 preschoolers well--facilitate activities/play, develop routine and structure, and generally create a nurturing and fun day. We're somewhat flexible on hours and don't intend to micromanage. Most of the time, there wouldn't be parents around. My hope is that this could work for someone that might have lost a job at a preschool or for whom going back to teaching preschool in the fall seems too risky.

Does anyone have thoughts on how to find someone like this? I'm at a loss.

And yes, I realize this is not kosher. I'm not interested in posts pointing that out. Thanks in advance for your help!

[Anonymous]

You ask the teachers at your former daycare/preschool whether they want work, or if they know anyone looking.

[Anonymous]

Thanks for the suggestion--their preschool is still operating, but is tentatively planning to do A/B days. But I'd hate to try to recruit away their teachers.

[Anonymous]

It’s a great idea, OP. But, as a warning, I’ve gotten over ten inquiries on care.com for the same type of position (I’m a former teacher). When I tell them I’m not available they all write back asking for suggestions on how to find someone.

So if you find someone - move fast!

[Anonymous]

Thanks for the feedback--that's what I'm afraid of. I can imagine anyone like that is setting their own terms at the moment.

So you say you're not available, huh?

[Anonymous]

Be aware that friends from preschool in a class of 8-14 kids may not stay friends with only 3-4 kids. You’re setting up a situation in which one child could be excluded, no matter what the adult in charge chooses to do.

Please be aware that this will be an in-home daycare and should be licensed as such.

[Anonymous]

Hi, I am a nanny with a degree in child development. What is your email? We can chat

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Thanks for the feedback--that's what I'm afraid of. I can imagine anyone like that is setting their own terms at the moment.

So you say you're not available, huh?

[Anonymous]

Thanks for the note. Per OSSE, a nanny share in one of our homes is exempt from licensing standards. We have done our research. Just because there are 3 kids and structure doesn't change that it's a nanny share.

And for the person that's interested, if you post a way to get in touch, I certainly will!

Any other suggestions about where to look for someone with this kind of experience? Much appreciated. Hope everyone is staying safe and sane.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Thanks for the note. Per OSSE, a nanny share in one of our homes is exempt from licensing standards. We have done our research. Just because there are 3 kids and structure doesn't change that it's a nanny share.

And for the person that's interested, if you post a way to get in touch, I certainly will!

Any other suggestions about where to look for someone with this kind of experience? Much appreciated. Hope everyone is staying safe and sane.

I’ve talked to several government offices. Nanny shares, where they are allowed, are defined as two children, two families.

[Anonymous]

Ugh! If I didn’t feel like Id be letting down my students I’d jump on this. I am a preschool special education teacher.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Thanks for the note. Per OSSE, a nanny share in one of our homes is exempt from licensing standards. We have done our research. Just because there are 3 kids and structure doesn't change that it's a nanny share.

And for the person that's interested, if you post a way to get in touch, I certainly will!

Any other suggestions about where to look for someone with this kind of experience? Much appreciated. Hope everyone is staying safe and sane.

I’ve talked to several government offices. Nanny shares, where they are allowed, are defined as two children, two families.

NP here. Are there any links or resources for this? I'm trying to do a nanny share but as legally as I can. Thanks.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Thanks for the note. Per OSSE, a nanny share in one of our homes is exempt from licensing standards. We have done our research. Just because there are 3 kids and structure doesn't change that it's a nanny share.

And for the person that's interested, if you post a way to get in touch, I certainly will!

Any other suggestions about where to look for someone with this kind of experience? Much appreciated. Hope everyone is staying safe and sane.

I’ve talked to several government offices. Nanny shares, where they are allowed, are defined as two children, two families.

NP here. Are there any links or resources for this? I'm trying to do a nanny share but as legally as I can. Thanks.

Maryland doesn’t recognize nanny shares as such, labeling them in home daycare. DC does. VA is very iffy, no specific links, and it seems to depend on where you live and who you get in the office.

https://search.usa.gov/search?query=Nanny+share&affiliate=dc_osse&emb=1

https://earlychildhood.marylandpublicschools.org/child-care-providers/office-child-care