Reference letter

[Anonymous]

Just found out my job of 4 years is ending this summer. Of course my boss said I could use her as a reference, but I am wondering should I ask her to write up a reference letter? How exactly does that work? I've only ever had references available by phone before. Is the letter instead of a phone call? How does the family know it's legit and I didn't just write it myself? Do I ask her to make copies and seal them in envelopes? Thanks for any advice you can provide.

[Anonymous]

When you ask for a written letter make sure your employers list down their emails and phone numbers. That way potential employers have the option to contact your previous employers

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Just found out my job of 4 years is ending this summer. Of course my boss said I could use her as a reference, but I am wondering should I ask her to write up a reference letter? How exactly does that work? I've only ever had references available by phone before. Is the letter instead of a phone call? How does the family know it's legit and I didn't just write it myself? Do I ask her to make copies and seal them in envelopes? Thanks for any advice you can provide.

My former DB printed, signed, then scanned his letter. That way I can send it electronically, without worrying about needing more copies/signatures. He’s also happy to email, Facetime, Skype or take calls.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Just found out my job of 4 years is ending this summer. Of course my boss said I could use her as a reference, but I am wondering should I ask her to write up a reference letter? How exactly does that work? I've only ever had references available by phone before. Is the letter instead of a phone call? How does the family know it's legit and I didn't just write it myself? Do I ask her to make copies and seal them in envelopes? Thanks for any advice you can provide.

My former DB printed, signed, then scanned his letter. That way I can send it electronically, without worrying about needing more copies/signatures. He’s also happy to email, Facetime, Skype or take calls.

OP here, thanks I like this idea. Maybe I will suggest it to my boss.

Is providing email addresses for references the norm these days? I haven't interviewed in over 4 years but only ever shared phone numbers.

[Anonymous]

I just typed my letter and emailed it to my nanny. It has my contact information on it, so they can reach me to verify it all.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Just found out my job of 4 years is ending this summer. Of course my boss said I could use her as a reference, but I am wondering should I ask her to write up a reference letter? How exactly does that work? I've only ever had references available by phone before. Is the letter instead of a phone call? How does the family know it's legit and I didn't just write it myself? Do I ask her to make copies and seal them in envelopes? Thanks for any advice you can provide.

My former DB printed, signed, then scanned his letter. That way I can send it electronically, without worrying about needing more copies/signatures. He’s also happy to email, Facetime, Skype or take calls.

OP here, thanks I like this idea. Maybe I will suggest it to my boss.

Is providing email addresses for references the norm these days? I haven't interviewed in over 4 years but only ever shared phone numbers.

That DB is happy to do whatever is most convenient for the person calling him. I have two other families who require an email or text to schedule a call first, due to their professions/schedules.

[Anonymous]

https://bethebestnanny.com/2012/10/16/do-you-have-written-reference-letters/

[Anonymous]

MB here. I don't pay much attention to reference letters - I want to speak with references directly. So it's a nice add on but in no way a substitute for speaking with a former employer.

[Anonymous]

OP here. Well glad some people said they don’t think it’s needed because when I asked my MB she said she is too busy and to just have people call her ?