What to do about a screaming MB boss

[Anonymous]

So I've been with this family for a few years and things used to be great.
The problem is my MB boss, she's always been nasty to her kids, but lately it's worse and she constantly screams at them, threatens them about taking stuff away, ...
I'm full time and she's home most of the time, the kids are very good for 95% of the time.
She screams like a lunatic when they don't eat their lunch/dinner, but meanwhile feeds them junk food and juice boxes and fruit snacks (the packaged sugary ones) right before the meal, or together with the meal. Which kid wants to eat lunch or dinner when they can eat cheeze its instead lol.
I don't want to give up on them, but I'm also scared to suggest things. She's non stop threatening about taking stuff away, but than gives in to them anyways.
As soon as they whine, she feeds them sugar and junk food to keep them quiet. Any suggestions?

[Anonymous]

Feed them a snack when hey get home as they are hungry.

[Anonymous]

Keep the kids away from her as much as possible? What else can you do? She is not going to change.

[Anonymous]

Screaming is mental and emotional abuse and, in my opinion, is as bad as physical abuse. I would tell her in no uncertain terms that the screaming stops or I leave. Her screaming is also abusive behavior toward you.

I would not with for a screamer.

[Anonymous]

Spoiled rotten kids

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Screaming is mental and emotional abuse and, in my opinion, is as bad as physical abuse. I would tell her in no uncertain terms that the screaming stops or I leave. Her screaming is also abusive behavior toward you.

I would not with for a screamer.

Agree. I would not put up with her unacceptable behavior.

[Anonymous]

Just one reason to avoid stay at home parents at all cost. This wouldn't be happening if u were out the door when she gets home. Brave of you to put up with the drama.