This is not a 'I saw your Nanny forum'

[Anonymous]

Please stop with the is this your nanny.

Ask Jeff to make a section for this type of topic.

There are millions of I saw your nanny sites out there.

[Anonymous]

Did someone snitch on you and MB saw the post?

[Anonymous]

I agree. Plus I have no clue how posters know the neglectful offenders are the nannies and not the mothers. Another nanny told me that she thought I was the mother and the mother was the nanny and she was going to tell me how neglectful the "nanny" was when she saw my MB with her charge.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I agree. Plus I have no clue how posters know the neglectful offenders are the nannies and not the mothers. Another nanny told me that she thought I was the mother and the mother was the nanny and she was going to tell me how neglectful the "nanny" was when she saw my MB with her charge.

That is kind of funny.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I agree. Plus I have no clue how posters know the neglectful offenders are the nannies and not the mothers. Another nanny told me that she thought I was the mother and the mother was the nanny and she was going to tell me how neglectful the "nanny" was when she saw my MB with her charge.

Sometimes it’s obvious by the race or age that the caregiver is not the mother. Where I live the children are mostly white and Asian, and the nannies are almost all Hispanic. But I also chat with people when I’m at the park, so I know who the nannies are from speaking to them.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I agree. Plus I have no clue how posters know the neglectful offenders are the nannies and not the mothers. Another nanny told me that she thought I was the mother and the mother was the nanny and she was going to tell me how neglectful the "nanny" was when she saw my MB with her charge.

Sometimes it’s obvious by the race or age that the caregiver is not the mother. Where I live the children are mostly white and Asian, and the nannies are almost all Hispanic. But I also chat with people when I’m at the park, so I know who the nannies are from speaking to them.

Don't assume by race genius.
My sister is Asian married AA. Her kids look nothing like her people always think she's the nanny.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I agree. Plus I have no clue how posters know the neglectful offenders are the nannies and not the mothers. Another nanny told me that she thought I was the mother and the mother was the nanny and she was going to tell me how neglectful the "nanny" was when she saw my MB with her charge.

Sometimes it’s obvious by the race or age that the caregiver is not the mother. Where I live the children are mostly white and Asian, and the nannies are almost all Hispanic. But I also chat with people when I’m at the park, so I know who the nannies are from speaking to them.

Sometimes it is just an assumption. People like you think I am my charger's mother all the time.

[Anonymous]

Hello,

I'm sorry but I believe that any parent HAS TO know, and BY ANY MEAN, if their child is not safe.

-Nanny.

[Anonymous]

ISYN is racist.

If you see a child in a dangerous situation, contact the authorities. Don’t post it on some website, you dumb nosey bitches.

[Anonymous]

Haha how about " Is this your wife? Mother of your kids? or Is this your husband?"

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I agree. Plus I have no clue how posters know the neglectful offenders are the nannies and not the mothers. Another nanny told me that she thought I was the mother and the mother was the nanny and she was going to tell me how neglectful the "nanny" was when she saw my MB with her charge.

Sometimes it’s obvious by the race or age that the caregiver is not the mother. Where I live the children are mostly white and Asian, and the nannies are almost all Hispanic. But I also chat with people when I’m at the park, so I know who the nannies are from speaking to them.

I am an MB and I have a nanny. However, we had just moved to a new area and my (adopted and a different race from me) sister was keeping my kids until my nanny could start. She was younger and while I trusted her, she wasn't particaularly entertained by watching my kids. While I did pay her, all I wanted her to do was keep them safe. She was doing me a favor by watching my kids until my nanny had worked through her notice with the family she was leaving. I didn't really expect my sister to be engaged with my kids - just make sure they're safe. She told me many stories of other mothers who thought she was the kids nanny and how they would stalk her and try to figure out who her "nanny family" was so they could report her to them. The lengths that some of those SAHM women would go to literally made me laugh out loud. And yes this was in the D.C. area.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I agree. Plus I have no clue how posters know the neglectful offenders are the nannies and not the mothers. Another nanny told me that she thought I was the mother and the mother was the nanny and she was going to tell me how neglectful the "nanny" was when she saw my MB with her charge.

Sometimes it’s obvious by the race or age that the caregiver is not the mother. Where I live the children are mostly white and Asian, and the nannies are almost all Hispanic. But I also chat with people when I’m at the park, so I know who the nannies are from speaking to them.

I am an MB and I have a nanny. However, we had just moved to a new area and my (adopted and a different race from me) sister was keeping my kids until my nanny could start. She was younger and while I trusted her, she wasn't particaularly entertained by watching my kids. While I did pay her, all I wanted her to do was keep them safe. She was doing me a favor by watching my kids until my nanny had worked through her notice with the family she was leaving. I didn't really expect my sister to be engaged with my kids - just make sure they're safe. She told me many stories of other mothers who thought she was the kids nanny and how they would stalk her and try to figure out who her "nanny family" was so they could report her to them. The lengths that some of those SAHM women would go to literally made me laugh out loud. And yes this was in the D.C. area.

[Anonymous]

" I saw your nanny" is one of the topics on this forum. nobody said it's a forum of its own.
Many workers have to worry about Yelp and what have you. Nannies working for a family don't have to worry somebody writing a review about. Op, do you have any suggestions how to talk to nannies or their families if needed?