should we make nanny pay for aftercare?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'd love to see you try. I'd laugh at you and never sit for you again.

You'd be laughing at home out of work.

[Anonymous]

You are over thinking this OP. She is not working those hours, so she doesn't get paid for those hours. Garnish her wages is not the correct term at all.

In writing, tell her she has 2 weeks (or however long) to get her shit together. If she does not, she needs to move out by the end of those two weeks.

Done

[Anonymous]

Doesn't she have a driver's license from her home country? Or an international one?

[Anonymous]

OP here....So we decided to end the relationship tonight.

We found out that her license expired at the beginning of October (not November like she led us to believe).

Such is life.

[Anonymous]

That sucks, OP. My first nanny was married to an American, and had had a work permit in the past, but was "in the queue" for her green card. It tool a lot longer than expected, and I almost had to let her go. In the end, it worked out ok, but I wouldn't go that route again.

Too many things can happen to draw out the immigration/work permit process.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP here....So we decided to end the relationship tonight.

We found out that her license expired at the beginning of October (not November like she led us to believe).

Such is life.

I'm very happy for your nanny.

[Anonymous]

I'm very happy for the MB who can now find a legal nanny who won't lie.