Long-time host mom, and no, this is not true. Families provide "room and board." Room and board is defined as a private legal bedroom and meals at home. It says nothing at all about toiletries. |
I suppose it could vary by agency. Still, in my mind I would never think of deodorant as something you would get as part of room and board. |
When you stay at a hotel they provide the basics : shampoo, soap and toothpaste (and some other stuff).
Host families have to provide these basics as well. Just like toilet paper ... or maybe the AP should buy it too ?! |
Huh? How is this like hosting an au pair? For one thing - the "guest" is paying the hotel, not the other way around. For another, not all hotels do (and what hotel provides toothpaste?). Also, where is my free food when I stay at a hotel? |
Clearly THEY DO NOT. Oy. |
From au pair mom:
http://aupairmom.com/who-pays-for-what/2009/09/07/celiaharquail/ |
Oy, looks like some host families are really cheap ! |
+1 |
It looks like most host families are appropriate in their welcome gifts. |
+1 |
+100 |
Minus 1 zillion |
My Brazilian au pair found this book really helpful because she mentioned she wanted to improve her English. I think it’s a nice little touch for a welcome basket if your AP wants to study the language.
Mind Your Language!: English for Nannies and Au Pairs https://www.amazon.com/dp/1938757416/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_ozBeBbJ5J7BGV |
Are you the author? You've posted this on two threads now. Once was sufficient. |