Should I just not show up to babysit? Dileema

[Anonymous]

I need some advice and opinions. I nanny FT but babysit on occasion. I babysat for one family about a month ago. They gave me extreme late notice( 45 mins) that they needed a babysitter. I went and babysat. They payed well and even payed for a cab home for me. I get a text on Tuesday from the dad asking if I can babysit Wednesday and Thursday. I say yes to both, however, I couldn't start until later today because I was working with my main family. Tuesday at 4am I get a text saying his daughter( 5 month old) had an ear infection and they would be canceling their plans. He said he for sure needed me Thursday( today)and hope she would be better by that time. I texted him yesterday evening asking how she was doing and if they needed me to babysit. I didn't hear anything back. My main family didn't need me today last minute, so I texted asking again if I was needed and that I can start earlier like they wanted. I even sent a follow-up email. I haven't heard a word.

I got another offer and now I don't know what to do? I feel it's ridiculous for the dad to not respond after several hours, especially if I was needed. Totally lack of respect. The first time as well, he wanted me their in 45 but waited 30 mins before texting back their address. I always honor my commitments so I'm now unsure of how to proceed. Also, I don't want to lose on the other family by not giving an answer soon enough.

What would you do in this situation?

[Anonymous]

You look out for yourself. If you need the cash you should babysit for the family who hasn't blown you off.
Barring an emergency, that is rude and disrespectful.

[Anonymous]

Maybe the dad is simply ... busy caring for his daughter. I do not keep my phone on me at all times.

[Anonymous]

they did not respond, they loose. anyway, next time you should contact them and ask if they still need you and add that you will assume they do not if you do not hear from them. this may prompt them to be more responsive, and you do not give up other jobs for them. anyway, they do not seem very reliable people

[Anonymous]

Wait, is this a new thread about the same problem posted yesterday?

I thought the OP included details about the DH explaining he didn't get back to OP immediately about the Thursday cancelation because he was napping after being up all night with his sick daughter.

What happened to that important detail?

[Anonymous]

Op also posted this in the general discussion area

[Anonymous]

Thanks, PP, that explains the changing details.