EVERY weekend my AP goes there with other AP friends. They are under 21 (19/20). She says they go there and drink water/coke and just hang out...but something sounds off. What is it about this place that's so attractive?
I've been there and driven by there on a Fri/Sat night...and it's a packed mob. Maybe I'm an old fuddy-duddy (at 39)...but what makes it so attractive...even for the under-aged? |
I don't know that place specifically, but I have a 17yo sister who goes places like that frequently. They drink at someone's house beforehand and then go to dance and be seen. You really don't get the appeal? It's a place with a ton of other under-21s where everyone gets to pretend to be older they dress sexy, dance sexy and meet other people. |
What is so mysterious? She wants to be with her friends and other people her age. Are you 39 in dog years? Unless, and until, you can prove your allegations, stop accusing her. FYI, bars/restaurants with ABCOn licenses, do not want to lose their licenses and bartenders and wait staff don't want to lose their jobs by servi.g minors. You sound like a real joy for this unfortunate young woman. |
She made no accusations. The PP ( not the OP ) suggested they might be drinking before going there, which WOULD be a problem for the au pairs, if their host moms knew about it. Or if someone tipped off the police after reading this post... Me thinks thou dost protest too much... |
I'm 18:20 who suggested they might be drinking beforehand. They are very likely not drinking there as those places would be shut down in a second if there was any underage drinking. I know my sister drinks before going like I said, but when I was a teen, we went to these types of places all the time and truly just went to dance and meet people. We never went drunk. It depends on what your Au pair is into. |
One of my APs, who would go there, would say that men bought drinks for them all the time and brought them to their table. I told her that can be dangerous (think date-rape drug)...but it seems to happen a lot. |
Please warn your APs about this. My AP went to Montreal this past weekend with 11 other German APs, and this happened to one of them - someone slipped drugs into her drink in a bar. Fortunately the girls she was with would not leave her alone w the guy and instead took her to a hospital. Not a fun way to experience Montreal! |
umm.. it's a meat market, not a night club - and way more trendy than anything else in RTC ![]() When you drive by actually look at the people who are there on a Friday night.. It's a totally different scene than what you would see at McCormick's down the block - which draws and older crowd. |