How to address NF

[Anonymous]

I think people are being too hard on OP. It is kind of weird to sit in the car like that, and could be an issue of the kids seeing them and getting excited but then upset when they don't come in. Also, if they don't walk in the door till 6, they are almost certainly expecting her to wait while they put their things away, take shoes off, say hi to the kids, have her debrief them on the day's events, etc... all of which eats into OP's time. Yes, I'm assuming, but I'm assuming based on many, many online threads as well as my own experience from nannying and babysitting for the past 20 years.

[Anonymous]

I'm paid through a payroll service they alway forget to update my pay. I also write down my hours which they never check. I don't mind staying, working, helping I'd just like to be paid for my time. I feel bad for asking for advice here and being harped on. I work just like everyone else I just want to be paid fairly.

[Anonymous]

the extra 10 minutes of work a week seems to really be bothering you. you've even calculated it adds up to 1 hour a month. (BTW, my nanny probably eats $25/week of our food but I don't bill her yet).

just tell the family you want to log in times sheets to the 15 minutes, then if they are "late" one day, they log it in correctly. and you are responsible for warning them ahead of time for any days you absolutely have to leave at XYZ.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:the extra 10 minutes of work a week seems to really be bothering you. you've even calculated it adds up to 1 hour a month. (BTW, my nanny probably eats $25/week of our food but I don't bill her yet).

just tell the family you want to log in times sheets to the 15 minutes, then if they are "late" one day, they log it in correctly. and you are responsible for warning them ahead of time for any days you absolutely have to leave at XYZ.

If her hours are 8a.m. to 6 pm, then they need to be home by 6 pm. If they want a report then they get home at 5:45 pm. 1p
10 hour day is a looooong time and I would be out the door at 6 pm on the dot.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Yesterday I got "home" from work early and knowing the nanny still had 18 more minutes, I sat outside on our porch and paid some bills, returned some emails, and put a few things on the family calendar.

It took me 15 minutes. Had I tried to do that with two excited small children hanging all over me it would have taken over an hour and something would have fallen through the cracks.

You're being paid for that time. If they want to sit in their car and decompress by listening to the radio, they'd paid for that right.

Fine but do not accept expect the nanny to stick around to give you a 15 minute FREE report of the day.