Actually, I'm the new poster to this debate and I have no opinion on the character of high income earners. I am just pointing out that your claim of wealthy moms spending more time with their children is predicated upon the assumption that they choose to spend what free time they have with their children. That may or may not be true, but it is certainly not automatically true. |
Agree, much of DC is educated dual-income white collar families, both parents went to grad school and work hard for their money and time off. |
Nice. |
] Having worked for families in the past that begrudged every cent they paid me because it limited their budget for "toys", my belief is the qualitative difference lies with the parents. Parents who choose to buy every bigger, better, newer, cooler electronic or motor driven toy on the market pay less per hour to the Nanny. Parents with less of an urge to indulge in more and better toys to impress their materialistic friends pay the Nanny much higher wages. |
| Are nannies allowed to be salaried? |
No. |
Is that how you help yourself sleep at night? You're somehow a better mom BECAUSE you underpay the woman who cares for your kids? That's laughable. |
One can easily see the consequences of inept care. It's everywhere, even among the wealthy. |
| You do know that agencies will often post a position like that because there data base is out of candidates, this position may not even exist, agencies are great at the bait and switch game. Not that there are nice paying positions because there are and in most cases these employers will want a college degree and someone that can speak more then one language not to mention it will be a 27/7 work week; |
This position is real (my friend interviewed for it) but obviously very difficult to fill. It bounced around for months with several high end agencies before finally being filled. It was also open just slightly over 3 years ago now, so that person didn't stay very long term. |
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MB here. I don't pay $50/hour, but I do pay about 50% above market for the area where I live (closer to $25 for two preschoolers in a low COL area)
We are fair employers, give paid vacations, nanny always gets the day off (paid) when we are away, never gets docked hours. We have a housekeeper who comes once a week but there is no other household help. DH and I work hard but we have flexible jobs. We structure our lives around seeing them, and we both leave at 9 and get home at 5 most days, although we each travel some. We rarely have help on the weekends and spend tons of time with the kids. So no, I don't spend extra to cover for our "bad parenting" or whatever you were implying. What I get for our money is a nanny who is completely responsible, virtually never late, gives vacation notice months in advance, never makes working in the snow an issue unless it's truly awful. She has total common sense, I would trust her 110% in an emergency, and she is always engaged with the kids. She drives them to lots of different activities and is sensitive to their needs -- these activities (at home and away) are tailored to their interests. She reads to the kids endlessly and is well educated enough to answer curious kids' questions. She is endlessly patience and totally professional. Perhaps I could have "gotten" this for less but I've interviewed a lot of nannies and I'm happy with our choice. Our house is a happy place where everyone has a lot of respect for everyone else and the kids are stimulated and happy. |
You are someone I would love to work for, really the money is part of the package. A great personality fit, great working conditions and communication is worth more then that crazy amount of pay amount of pay. A fair wage with a fair boss is gold. |
[b] Not saying other agencies don't do that, but westside nannies is the top agency in LA, they don't have to do that. I got a job through them for $40/hr with an amazing family. But that DC job has been up for over a year, they must be super picky because most westside nannies jobs get filled pretty quickly. Westside is also notorious for not even accepting most nannies, everyone want to be represented by that agency so I don't they're trying to just get s bunch of nannies on the roster since they don't accept most anyways. |
[b] PP again- it was open last summer, my friend interviewed for it as well. She was a teacher and super experienced, but didn't get it. She's amazing so they must be wanting a rocket scientist or a slave, I don't get it. |
Why does she have to? She can do just OK as a mom, and be a good employer, and her kids may turn out just fine. |