Anonymous wrote:Maybe Big Sass's posting of her and him (finally) was his last ditch effort to try and make her stay? She lives for social media validation and the fact that he never gave it to her was more than likely a sore spot for her. So it seems fishy that all of a sudden now he makes this grand gesture post (which I don't think she liked or commented on).
She did not. He also did not tag her - thanks Jane Capstitcher LOL - which they typically do when they're posting about each other. She did not tag him or mention him by name in her birthday post. BUT. Her birthday post was put up well after Tyler's fake Ode to Jen and she could have just as easily done her birthday post without mention of Tyler, if they have actually called it quits.
I think it's sad how she needs so much social media validation but I get it. She took this super public super fast and it early on became obvious that there was a huge disparity in how they interacted with each other. It's not that I think anyone should expect constant public validation but what I find sad is how he withholds it from her. He's not a regular dude on Instagram. This is his business. He knows. He knows people notice.
And why, for the love of Pete, wasn't that whole "I'll have to let you know/I have to clear it through my female BFF" not a huge freaking red flag? HOW? When I listed to them on Glennon's podcast, they were so affirming of something that was such a giant hell no. Don't get it at all