Muslima wrote:The oppressed Niqabi
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:
The Amish have received special dispensation to isolate themselves. We allow homeschooling, communes, etc. However, if the isolation seems coercive, we step in. In this country, we step in in cases of the FLDS. This seems similar, but on a smaller scale in this country. The scale seems much larger in France.
There is nothing to indicate that niqabis in the U.S. or Europe are coerced into it, other than your fervent desire to believe it to be so, to the point where you negate the voices of women who wear it voluntarily.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:The British perspective, for anyone interested:
http://www.independent.co.uk/voices/comment/lets-face-it--the-niqab-is-ridiculous-and-the-ideology-behind-it-weird-8831691.html
This reminded of a show I heard on WAMU the other day, about two British twins who had converted, one to Christianity and one to Islam. The Muslim sister said that she got lots of harassment for wearing the hijab, and wouldn't go out at night with her Muslim friends, would stay in rather than endure the abuse. While that harassment is very bad, and I think less prevalent here, the idea didn't occur to her that she was not being modest by wearing it. She was standing out, in a hugely negative way. That thought never occurred to her or her Muslim friends.
Anonymous wrote:The British perspective, for anyone interested:
http://www.independent.co.uk/voices/comment/lets-face-it--the-niqab-is-ridiculous-and-the-ideology-behind-it-weird-8831691.html
Anonymous wrote:http://www.foxnews.com/us/2012/05/29/alleged-honor-killing-suspect-yaser-said-could-be-hiding-in-plain-sight-as-new/
so you don't think a parent like this might pressure his teen daughters to adopt the niqab?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:
That's your interpretation. Women who cover their faces may very well believe that you aren't special enough to see them. The sight of their face is reserved only for special people, and you aren't one of them.
Absolutely. In my opinion, these complete coverings serve the purpose of isolating women from broader society and making them only interact with those of their own religious community of believers.
I can see you believe that no woman may actually choose to live like that. You say you want women to have freedom of choice, but in actuality, you only want them to have you-approved choices. If you disapprove of a particular lifestyle, it should not be offered as a choice. Got it.
I never said anything about not allowing women to wear them or whether they choose to wear them. In response to the comment that Niqab wearing women may believe you aren't special enough to see them, I said these coverings serve the purpose of isolating women from broader society. Later I added that the intent doesn't matter, they have that effect.
Someone said I like to pretend that niqabs are more isolating than they are. No, I really think they're pretty isolating, at least in general Western society.
Again - if someone wants to be isolated from a "broader society", and you don't want them to, is it a good enough reason to legislate against it? I think not.
Anonymous wrote:
The Amish have received special dispensation to isolate themselves. We allow homeschooling, communes, etc. However, if the isolation seems coercive, we step in. In this country, we step in in cases of the FLDS. This seems similar, but on a smaller scale in this country. The scale seems much larger in France.
Anonymous wrote:Muslima wrote:Anonymous wrote:Muslima wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Muslima wrote:I actually recognize my friends who wear a niqab, I must be a genius ~
I'm glad you recognize your friends--I'm sure their mannerisms and voices are familiar to you. That's not the point, and I feel sure you know it.
Hopefully, they come in different skin tones.
Attention to detail, you get to know the characteristics and attributes of those around you : their voices, the way they arranged their niqab, their eyes, their demeanor, their pace, their smiles, and even the type of abaya, handbag and shoe they wear.
with a niqab
With a burqa, however, you don't see eyes or a mouth So you'll have to rely on your other senses - touch and sound.
How ridiculous these garbs are!
Let's bring back the corset while we're at it and collapse a few lungs.
I'm sure, they have their ways of recognizing each other. The corset is Back, haven't you heard? There is a whole movement about it. .....
haven't heard of the corset resurrection, no . . .
However, I'd say the same thing - brainwashed women forced by culture to be subservient
burqa and niqab AND hijab = corset
same difference
Muslima wrote:Anonymous wrote:Muslima wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Muslima wrote:I actually recognize my friends who wear a niqab, I must be a genius ~
I'm glad you recognize your friends--I'm sure their mannerisms and voices are familiar to you. That's not the point, and I feel sure you know it.
Hopefully, they come in different skin tones.
Attention to detail, you get to know the characteristics and attributes of those around you : their voices, the way they arranged their niqab, their eyes, their demeanor, their pace, their smiles, and even the type of abaya, handbag and shoe they wear.
with a niqab
With a burqa, however, you don't see eyes or a mouth So you'll have to rely on your other senses - touch and sound.
How ridiculous these garbs are!
Let's bring back the corset while we're at it and collapse a few lungs.
I'm sure, they have their ways of recognizing each other. The corset is Back, haven't you heard? There is a whole movement about it. .....
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:
That's your interpretation. Women who cover their faces may very well believe that you aren't special enough to see them. The sight of their face is reserved only for special people, and you aren't one of them.
Absolutely. In my opinion, these complete coverings serve the purpose of isolating women from broader society and making them only interact with those of their own religious community of believers.
I can see you believe that no woman may actually choose to live like that. You say you want women to have freedom of choice, but in actuality, you only want them to have you-approved choices. If you disapprove of a particular lifestyle, it should not be offered as a choice. Got it.
I never said anything about not allowing women to wear them or whether they choose to wear them. In response to the comment that Niqab wearing women may believe you aren't special enough to see them, I said these coverings serve the purpose of isolating women from broader society. Later I added that the intent doesn't matter, they have that effect.
Someone said I like to pretend that niqabs are more isolating than they are. No, I really think they're pretty isolating, at least in general Western society.
Again - if someone wants to be isolated from a "broader society", and you don't want them to, is it a good enough reason to legislate against it? I think not.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:
That's your interpretation. Women who cover their faces may very well believe that you aren't special enough to see them. The sight of their face is reserved only for special people, and you aren't one of them.
Absolutely. In my opinion, these complete coverings serve the purpose of isolating women from broader society and making them only interact with those of their own religious community of believers.
I can see you believe that no woman may actually choose to live like that. You say you want women to have freedom of choice, but in actuality, you only want them to have you-approved choices. If you disapprove of a particular lifestyle, it should not be offered as a choice. Got it.
I never said anything about not allowing women to wear them or whether they choose to wear them. In response to the comment that Niqab wearing women may believe you aren't special enough to see them, I said these coverings serve the purpose of isolating women from broader society. Later I added that the intent doesn't matter, they have that effect.
Someone said I like to pretend that niqabs are more isolating than they are. No, I really think they're pretty isolating, at least in general Western society.