Anonymous wrote:What does it hurt you to use someone's preferred pronouns that make them feel more safe and true to themselves? It literally costs you nothing. Be better.
Also, SEX and GENDER are two separate categories.
SEX is science-based, and chromosome-based. The correct terms are Male and Female (for the most part, some people have chromosomes other than XX or XY.). Sex is something that cannot be changed.
GENDER is a social construct. The correct terms are Man and Woman (and non -binary.) It's why we have evolved over the years from saying "transexual" to saying "transgender." Some people identify with being a man and masculine, even though they are in a female body, vice versa.
I feel so much for the trans community. Imagine never feeling comfortable in your own body. Just imagine.
And here some of you are, making it harder for them when it costs you absolutely nothing to show them some basic human dignity.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:What is the big deal about respecting someone’s pronouns? Even if you personally disagree on their ideas re: gender? It’s about respect.
If someone you know identified as the Queen of England and wanted to be referred to as Your Highness, would respecting them mean entertaining their wishes?
Anonymous wrote:What is the big deal about respecting someone’s pronouns? Even if you personally disagree on their ideas re: gender? It’s about respect.
Anonymous wrote:What is the big deal about respecting someone’s pronouns? Even if you personally disagree on their ideas re: gender? It’s about respect.
I don't know how you came by all of this information, but it was super shitty to share it here. You're talking about a young adult's mental health issues. If you're a friend of theirs, you're a bad friend.
Hatmaker-adjacent: Sarah Goodfellow's oldest daughter, Riley, has some severe anxiety issues and identifies as they/them. She spent a semester in college in Spain and almost had a nervous breakdown (no exaggeration) because the professors wouldn't use her preferred pronouns and she felt called out and harassed on the streets because of her sexual identity. She is fluent in Spanish, due to her time in Peru with her family for their nonprofit/missionary work with Krochet Kids, and was able to articulate well why she chose to identify as such to her teachers. I was struck by her sad inability to see that the rest of the world is not the US, and that other cultures don't necessarily agree with or accommodate your beliefs/worldview.