+1 I guess the fact that he was “old” made him extra creepy? Give me a break - you were blowing a guy in a public place.

Tonight PP will call her date from that night, who is now married, and launch into a crazy tirade, blaming him for everything that’s wrong with her life...

🎶 and I’m here to remind you... 🎶

Hilarious to read, up-thread, the term “Asian fetish.”

Was set up on a completely blind date by a work friend. Showed up and my date is Asian. That’s cool; I had dated an Asian person before. So let’s get to know each other, see if there’s any chemistry, and see where this thing goes?

On the second date she asked me: “so, you aren’t one of those guys with an Asian fetish, are you?!?!”

Bwahahaha - no. I immediately thought: it was a blind first date!

We had some things in common (field of work) some things not (political view). But I didn’t see it going anywhere long term. And, call me shallow, but she was short, and I prefer really tall women.

But she never dropped her suspicion that maybe I harbored a secret Asian fetish. Sometimes you just can’t win.

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Anonymous wrote:Went on first date after my divorce with a guy who I’d been talking to over Facebook for about a month. Went to movies and one thing led to another and some nosey old guy kept looking at us messing around. I managed to somewhat start giving him a blowjob before I noticed old creepy guy looking. Normally wouldn’t do that on a first date however he was so cute and the chemistry was there. Been engaged 2 years now to him and we’re getting married spring 2022

You were blowing your date at the movies, and the old guy was the creep? Oh dear.

I can picture you clutching your pearls as you typed out “oh dear.”

NP. Did you miss the part where she got all huffy because she was blowing a stranger in public and thought the guy getting annoyed by it was the problem?

+1 I guess the fact that he was “old” made him extra creepy? Give me a break - you were blowing a guy in a public place.

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Anonymous wrote:I'll flip it. Have gone on two first dates where the women told me exactly what they thought about dating someone black or Jewish. I am half Jewish but do not look semitic at all. What's really pitiful is why would someone being something up like that with a date they barely know?

Hmmm, I’m a white girl who dates only BIPOC men…not attracted to white guys at all. Is it weird if I mention that on a date?

OMG yes, keep that to yourself. It comes across as having a fetish.

You might also want to read the book Invisible Man by Ralph Ellison while you are at it.

+1. It’s like trashy white women who claim they love only black men or crept white guys who have an Asian fetish.

There are plenty of people who are white who will only date white people. Do they have a fetish, too?

That I would call racist.

Oh stop it. I’m white and was never attracted to blond men; my type was always dark hair and dark eyes. Who we’re sexually attracted to has nothing to do with racism. You absolutely trivialize racism to throw around accusations this way.

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I guess between my widowhood beginning and when I dated these guys was the age span (we were close in age) when penises shrink.

They don’t shrink. They may have trouble getting hard though.

Well, there are many alternative, mutually-satisfying, things to do together. Too many couples just give up too easily.

Not to mention all sorts of therapies; probably the leading one being a little blue pill.