Anonymous
06/11/2021 20:16
Subject: How to filter for men who have or will have high incomes
Anonymous wrote:I am really surprised how much men seem to resent women wanting to marry partners who can provide for their families, but never resent other men who expect a certain aesthetic from their partners? It seems inconsistent since anyone can make money but not everyone is naturally beautiful (but no one tells men who want a beautiful wife to get plastic surgery themselves...) I feel like in the same way it’s as easy to fall for a beautiful person as a plain one, it’s as easy to fall in love with a wealthy person as a poor one .
Well you’re a tad dishonest. The discussion hasn’t been about women wanting men who can provide for their families. It’s about women who want men who can provide Porsches.
Anonymous
06/11/2021 17:47
Subject: How to filter for men who have or will have high incomes
Anonymous wrote:Definitely not at a not for profit. 😆
How about upping your skills and being successful on your own. Success gets success!
You’re not very well-educated about nonprofits. I make $325k at a national nonprofit and will be retiring very comfortably at 53.
Anonymous
06/11/2021 17:43
Subject: How to filter for men who have or will have high incomes
I am really surprised how much men seem to resent women wanting to marry partners who can provide for their families, but never resent other men who expect a certain aesthetic from their partners? It seems inconsistent since anyone can make money but not everyone is naturally beautiful (but no one tells men who want a beautiful wife to get plastic surgery themselves...) I feel like in the same way it’s as easy to fall for a beautiful person as a plain one, it’s as easy to fall in love with a wealthy person as a poor one .
Anonymous
06/11/2021 17:35
Subject: How to filter for men who have or will have high incomes
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I find this thread comical. I'm married now with kids. But, when I was in college and throughout my 20s and early 30s I never told women I dated how much I was worth.
My parents are worth over $60 million. We have a very large real estate empire in the area. But, we don't look the part. My parents started with nothing and worked 14 hour days when I was a kid. Example: I played sports for eight years (high school and college). They never saw me play ONCE and I did track and field, wrestling, and football.
Anyway, it's funny because so many women want to find rich guys. After college I took a $50k corporate job. Bought my own townhouse with my salary, car, etc. I never took money from my parents. Then I became a fireman. I dated a few women but never told them my family was wealthy.
When I met the women I was going to marry I resigned from the fire department and returned to work for my family's business. Now, I'm a partner in the firm that oversees all my family's properties. I live in McLean in a 6000sqft house. My wife and I both drive $50k cars (nothing too fancy) and our kids to go private school. I have two weekend homes. One on the water in the Southern Maryland and a country home in the Shenandoah Valley.
Moral of the story? There isn't one. You won't know who's actually wealthy because most wealthy people don't act or dress like it. My family has a friend who lives in PA. His net worth is $200 million. He owns over 20 strip centers from NY to NC. He drives a 20 year old Honda CRV (not joking) and he refills plastic water bottles with well water from his house instead of buying bottle water. He shops at normal department stores for clothes.
Enjoy trying to find men who are "wealthy"
You sound resentful of your parents for never attending your games and trying to pretend “never taking money from“ makes you self-made. Moral of the story? Never underestimate the self-conscious insecurity of a man whose father is worth $600 million.
You really want to read what you want to read don't you? I mentioned the sports as a sign of how hard they worked to be where they are. They made sacrifices, which most Americans don't even understand because they're too lazy. Most people don't work that hard. My parents did. I also worked hard. People always assume if you are from a rich family you don't work hard or make your own money. I took a job out of college for $50k when I could have returned to my family and made $200k as at the age of 21. And where the heck did I single out my father??? I said BOTH PARENTS - silly kids trying to make drama because you're too bored.
You need to get a life and perhaps some perspective on your own life. Don't get angry at others because they are better off from hard work and sacrifice. I'm sure you're just an angry lady unset people have it easier than you because they worked and you took the easy road.
Good luck.
Lastly,
Anonymous
06/11/2021 14:42
Subject: Re:How to filter for men who have or will have high incomes
Now everyone knows what you are, only question is the price.
Anonymous
06/11/2021 07:02
Subject: Re:How to filter for men who have or will have high incomes
If you marry for money you EARN every penny of it...
Anonymous
06/11/2021 07:01
Subject: How to filter for men who have or will have high incomes
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Why is this board so obsessed with money??
Women that are lazy and don't want to work. They watch a lot of Real Housewives and want to emulate that lifestyle.
+100
This board is 2% women and 98% men obsessed with arguing with women. It is a universal truth that wherever women congregate on the internet to discuss issues with each other, men want to butt in and argue. I once read that Jezebel has a 45% male readership who show up just to make sure everyone knows they hate feminists.
This board is 98% women crowing about, in a relationship forum, how much money they or their husbands make.
Anonymous
06/10/2021 23:28
Subject: How to filter for men who have or will have high incomes
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:OP, sorry to say but high earning men do the filtering...not you. If they decide to find you, they will. If you're not attractive or also a high earner, then your odds are slim.
+1. High value men know a monkey brancher (the women looking to swing higher, focused on a man's wallet) when they see one, too. They aren't looking for you, OP. They want a woman who is above all feminine, pretty, in shape, cooperative, inspirational and friendly. A woman who makes their non-work hours peaceful. These type of men work hard all day, they do not want to come home to the second job of competing against you in every little thing. The truly high-value man doesn't care about your money, or your job. He has his own money. Women control access to relationships, but men control access to marriage. He holds the keys.
So… like an air hostess? LOL
What would you like to drink, sir? I’ll help you with that bag, sir. The seatbelt sign is on now.
Anonymous
06/10/2021 23:25
Subject: Re:How to filter for men who have or will have high incomes
Trying to find a man with money is a pretty good strategy to never find one.
I don't come from great wealth. Most of the men in my family are GPs. We're comfortable. I'm not a doctor myself but I'm well-educated (LLM). I only make about 65K per year due to some health issues that prevent me from taking on a typical lawyer's workload.
I've never been too concerned about meeting a man with money. I own my home and know that I'll be okay.
I've dated a lot of starving artists, and even some men on social assistance. It's never bothered me.
But I have dated some very wealthy men. I recently started seeing a widowed judge who seems to have a few homes. I don't pry; I don't really care.
Meanwhile, I have friends who try their damndest to meet rich men. They go after these flashy types who just use them and spit them out. I tell them to stop worrying about it so much. They all have good jobs of their own. They all make far more than I do. But they're hyper focused on finding rich men, and it always backfires.
I don't come from great wealth. Most of the men in my family are GPs. We're comfortable. I'm not a doctor myself but I'm well-educated (LLM). I only make about 65K per year due to some health issues that prevent me from taking on a typical lawyer's workload.
I've never been too concerned about meeting a man with money. I own my home and know that I'll be okay.
I've dated a lot of starving artists, and even some men on social assistance. It's never bothered me.
But I have dated some very wealthy men. I recently started seeing a widowed judge who seems to have a few homes. I don't pry; I don't really care.
Meanwhile, I have friends who try their damndest to meet rich men. They go after these flashy types who just use them and spit them out. I tell them to stop worrying about it so much. They all have good jobs of their own. They all make far more than I do. But they're hyper focused on finding rich men, and it always backfires.
Anonymous
06/10/2021 23:01
Subject: How to filter for men who have or will have high incomes
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Why is this board so obsessed with money??
Women that are lazy and don't want to work. They watch a lot of Real Housewives and want to emulate that lifestyle.
+100
This board is 2% women and 98% men obsessed with arguing with women. It is a universal truth that wherever women congregate on the internet to discuss issues with each other, men want to butt in and argue. I once read that Jezebel has a 45% male readership who show up just to make sure everyone knows they hate feminists.
Anonymous
06/10/2021 21:05
Subject: How to filter for men who have or will have high incomes
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Why is this board so obsessed with money??
Women that are lazy and don't want to work. They watch a lot of Real Housewives and want to emulate that lifestyle.
+100
This board is 2% women and 98% men obsessed with arguing with women. It is a universal truth that wherever women congregate on the internet to discuss issues with each other, men want to butt in and argue. I once read that Jezebel has a 45% male readership who show up just to make sure everyone knows they hate feminists.
Anonymous
06/10/2021 20:57
Subject: How to filter for men who have or will have high incomes
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Why is this board so obsessed with money??
Women that are lazy and don't want to work. They watch a lot of Real Housewives and want to emulate that lifestyle.
+100
Anonymous
06/10/2021 20:43
Subject: How to filter for men who have or will have high incomes
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I find this thread comical. I'm married now with kids. But, when I was in college and throughout my 20s and early 30s I never told women I dated how much I was worth.
My parents are worth over $60 million. We have a very large real estate empire in the area. But, we don't look the part. My parents started with nothing and worked 14 hour days when I was a kid. Example: I played sports for eight years (high school and college). They never saw me play ONCE and I did track and field, wrestling, and football.
Anyway, it's funny because so many women want to find rich guys. After college I took a $50k corporate job. Bought my own townhouse with my salary, car, etc. I never took money from my parents. Then I became a fireman. I dated a few women but never told them my family was wealthy.
When I met the women I was going to marry I resigned from the fire department and returned to work for my family's business. Now, I'm a partner in the firm that oversees all my family's properties. I live in McLean in a 6000sqft house. My wife and I both drive $50k cars (nothing too fancy) and our kids to go private school. I have two weekend homes. One on the water in the Southern Maryland and a country home in the Shenandoah Valley.
Moral of the story? There isn't one. You won't know who's actually wealthy because most wealthy people don't act or dress like it. My family has a friend who lives in PA. His net worth is $200 million. He owns over 20 strip centers from NY to NC. He drives a 20 year old Honda CRV (not joking) and he refills plastic water bottles with well water from his house instead of buying bottle water. He shops at normal department stores for clothes.
Enjoy trying to find men who are "wealthy"
You sound resentful of your parents for never attending your games and trying to pretend “never taking money from“ makes you self-made. Moral of the story? Never underestimate the self-conscious insecurity of a man whose father is worth $600 million.
I know right? The lesson is go after the father. Best practice is to quickly get pregnant by the father and cut out the son(and all other adult children) ASAP.
Anonymous
06/10/2021 20:24
Subject: How to filter for men who have or will have high incomes
Anonymous wrote:I find this thread comical. I'm married now with kids. But, when I was in college and throughout my 20s and early 30s I never told women I dated how much I was worth.
My parents are worth over $60 million. We have a very large real estate empire in the area. But, we don't look the part. My parents started with nothing and worked 14 hour days when I was a kid. Example: I played sports for eight years (high school and college). They never saw me play ONCE and I did track and field, wrestling, and football.
Anyway, it's funny because so many women want to find rich guys. After college I took a $50k corporate job. Bought my own townhouse with my salary, car, etc. I never took money from my parents. Then I became a fireman. I dated a few women but never told them my family was wealthy.
When I met the women I was going to marry I resigned from the fire department and returned to work for my family's business. Now, I'm a partner in the firm that oversees all my family's properties. I live in McLean in a 6000sqft house. My wife and I both drive $50k cars (nothing too fancy) and our kids to go private school. I have two weekend homes. One on the water in the Southern Maryland and a country home in the Shenandoah Valley.
Moral of the story? There isn't one. You won't know who's actually wealthy because most wealthy people don't act or dress like it. My family has a friend who lives in PA. His net worth is $200 million. He owns over 20 strip centers from NY to NC. He drives a 20 year old Honda CRV (not joking) and he refills plastic water bottles with well water from his house instead of buying bottle water. He shops at normal department stores for clothes.
Enjoy trying to find men who are "wealthy"
You sound resentful of your parents for never attending your games and trying to pretend “never taking money from“ makes you self-made. Moral of the story? Never underestimate the self-conscious insecurity of a man whose father is worth $600 million.
Anonymous
06/10/2021 20:13
Subject: How to filter for men who have or will have high incomes
I find this thread comical. I'm married now with kids. But, when I was in college and throughout my 20s and early 30s I never told women I dated how much I was worth.
My parents are worth over $60 million. We have a very large real estate empire in the area. But, we don't look the part. My parents started with nothing and worked 14 hour days when I was a kid. Example: I played sports for eight years (high school and college). They never saw me play ONCE and I did track and field, wrestling, and football.
Anyway, it's funny because so many women want to find rich guys. After college I took a $50k corporate job. Bought my own townhouse with my salary, car, etc. I never took money from my parents. Then I became a fireman. I dated a few women but never told them my family was wealthy.
When I met the women I was going to marry I resigned from the fire department and returned to work for my family's business. Now, I'm a partner in the firm that oversees all my family's properties. I live in McLean in a 6000sqft house. My wife and I both drive $50k cars (nothing too fancy) and our kids to go private school. I have two weekend homes. One on the water in the Southern Maryland and a country home in the Shenandoah Valley.
Moral of the story? There isn't one. You won't know who's actually wealthy because most wealthy people don't act or dress like it. My family has a friend who lives in PA. His net worth is $200 million. He owns over 20 strip centers from NY to NC. He drives a 20 year old Honda CRV (not joking) and he refills plastic water bottles with well water from his house instead of buying bottle water. He shops at normal department stores for clothes.
Enjoy trying to find men who are "wealthy"
My parents are worth over $60 million. We have a very large real estate empire in the area. But, we don't look the part. My parents started with nothing and worked 14 hour days when I was a kid. Example: I played sports for eight years (high school and college). They never saw me play ONCE and I did track and field, wrestling, and football.
Anyway, it's funny because so many women want to find rich guys. After college I took a $50k corporate job. Bought my own townhouse with my salary, car, etc. I never took money from my parents. Then I became a fireman. I dated a few women but never told them my family was wealthy.
When I met the women I was going to marry I resigned from the fire department and returned to work for my family's business. Now, I'm a partner in the firm that oversees all my family's properties. I live in McLean in a 6000sqft house. My wife and I both drive $50k cars (nothing too fancy) and our kids to go private school. I have two weekend homes. One on the water in the Southern Maryland and a country home in the Shenandoah Valley.
Moral of the story? There isn't one. You won't know who's actually wealthy because most wealthy people don't act or dress like it. My family has a friend who lives in PA. His net worth is $200 million. He owns over 20 strip centers from NY to NC. He drives a 20 year old Honda CRV (not joking) and he refills plastic water bottles with well water from his house instead of buying bottle water. He shops at normal department stores for clothes.
Enjoy trying to find men who are "wealthy"