Anonymous wrote:For those posters who want the kids to handle every single thing with patience and grace, that’s fabulous if your kid can. For some kids, this pandemic time has involved not only disappointment after disappointment, but sickness and in some cases, death.
At least for my DS, the waitlists and rejections are just one in a string of challenges. Is it the worst? Most terrible? of course not. But during a year+ of some pretty terrible things in our family, it feels like the straw that broke the camel’s back.
And before anyone asks, the deaths were not directly Covid-related. One person got stuck in another country and had a heart attack. Another cruelly died in childbirth.
So sorry. Only we know what our kids have had to endure this year. What feels hard to one may not feel hard to another.
Ignore the people here who are judgey and quick to call everyone a helicopter parent. I don't subscribe to the "throw your kid out of the nest" school of parenting either.