Anonymous wrote:Never
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Age 32.
But we made money on a previous house AND prior to that lived for 4 years in a very, very cheap apartment in Baltimore ($400/month) and commuted to work in DC so we were able to save a lot of money.
I don’t understand people who do this. Live in a really bad situation for 4 years just to be able to buy a $$$ house? Why not live more moderately and then buy more moderately?
Anonymous wrote:We bought a $1.4M house when we were 26 and 27, nearly 20 years ago.
One of us was working at a top law firm. The other started a very successful business and was making significant income by 25.
In our mid 40s we own a $6.5M primary residence and nearly $2M second home.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I think the OP you are referring to is Asian. It is very common for Asian parents (especially ones that are still in Asia) to pay for huge downpayment or buying outright. I know one Chinese colleague, she and her husband bought a $2.2m townhouse in Georgetown at 28. It was paid entirely by the parents.
But do keep in mind, they have to take care the parents after they retire. No senior living community, which is considered a shame. I'm not sure I would trade parents help for that.
I am Asian and I can tell you my parents did not pay money for my house. Neither do they pay for the kids' weddings. Likewise for any of my Asian friends. As a matter of fact, we bought our parents home for them!
Asian parents also laugh at the idea of 529. My parents don't know what that is. They expect us to be smart enough to get our own scholarships to pay our way through college.
Dumb and false. Top schools no longer give merit scholarships. All of the Asian parents I know save up so their kids don’t have to be saddled with huge loans.
Anonymous wrote:Age 32.
But we made money on a previous house AND prior to that lived for 4 years in a very, very cheap apartment in Baltimore ($400/month) and commuted to work in DC so we were able to save a lot of money.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Dead.
We could but who wants to? I own a paid off 20 acre profitable farm with a lovely 3800 sf house. I would poke my eye out with a stick before spending a million+ on a suburban McMansion or urban shack.
No need to be rude. Other people have different needs/wants.