Anonymous
Post 02/07/2021 22:36     Subject: Re:Fiance wants to elope, I want a wedding
Anonymous wrote:You might as well save your breath, OP doesn’t actually care about any of the opinions expressed here.



That's clear. I guess OP was a troll wasting everyone's time.
Anonymous
Post 02/07/2021 22:07     Subject: Re:Fiance wants to elope, I want a wedding
Anonymous wrote:Does OP want a traditional wedding or he is expected to do it?

Who is paying for it?


OP is probably neither paying for it nor planning it. Other people are supposed to make it happen for him.
Anonymous
Post 02/07/2021 21:52     Subject: Re:Fiance wants to elope, I want a wedding
Does OP want a traditional wedding or he is expected to do it?

Who is paying for it?
Anonymous
Post 02/07/2021 21:43     Subject: Re:Fiance wants to elope, I want a wedding
You might as well save your breath, OP doesn’t actually care about any of the opinions expressed here.
Anonymous
Post 02/07/2021 21:39     Subject: Re:Fiance wants to elope, I want a wedding
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I feel a sign of disrespect is doing what your family wants to do for a wedding vs. your future wife....



Exactly. Her wishes should come first.



And he wants his family there. His wishes matter too.


Yeah, DH was like this - didn't want a wedding, yet wanted his family there. Effing nightmare. OP, use that money toward a house, or an exotic trip after COVID, or a worthy investment - because you will NOT please everyone.


You don't have to please everyone, they just need to please each other, and you know compromise.