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Anonymous wrote:New poster - I haven't read the entire thread, but the answer is no. Men don't care about a woman's salary, job title or, my favorite absurdity, her "professional accomplishments."

We as men do not view women as providers the way women view us. It's simply not part of the attraction or calculation for us.

A woman who's crazy irresponsible in how she handles money is a huge red flag, but what she does for a living or how much she makes doesn't matter one wit.

+ A million

Looks, looks, and looks barring any big red flags.

Once you pass a threshold of things like personality, etc. It is all about looks.

+1 sexy a** women don’t need an income

BS. if this were true, you'd all be married to hot girls who work at the mall. Or the girl who washes your hair. Or any other number of hot dull women.

Men with decent financial potential and an ounce of common sense want a woman with either an impressive resume or earning potential. There are literally millions of women in this country who are generically "hot", and men don't want. Because they do in fact care about a women's aspirations/career/financials. They may try and act cool on this thread like they just care about boobs, but it's bullshit. And those that legitimately only married for boobs, in my experience, are pretty damn unfulfilled by their 30s.....

+1. DCUM guys are apparently the rare outliers not participating in assortative dating/mating. It's a thing, and it is more common now than ever. I look at couples all around me and even the young guys in my office and no, they're not marrying for just hot by ANY means. The young guys in particular are repulsed by young women who don't seem to have any drive or ambition and are looking for men to take care of them, and these are guys who are earning good money and in a field where you can earn the big bucks. They're not looking for Hooters waitresses. Now maybe they will end up with a woman who wants to stay at home for a bit when kids are young, that is reasonable, but it's a red flag that would be her expectation from the get-go. There are many attractive (hot) women who also are passionate and driven, why would you settle for the GED hottie who works at the mall kiosk unless you thought that was the best you could do?

+100

My 26-year old nephew just married a doctor. She’s 5’10” and absolutely stunning. She could model.
The other one is dating a girl fresh out of law school that looks like a young Elisabeth Shue.

My sister is a smart cookie that always has her foot in the workforce, even though she went part-time when they were small. They had female role models that weren’t just bimbos or homemakers.

Anonymous wrote:Yes. It’s not like I’m going to marry some woman that dabbles and teaches spin or Pilates 3 classes per week. $75-80 before tax. There’s not a market or retirement for old doing that and it’s not the intellectual stimulation I need. There are plenty of hot women that take the 6 classes per week but have a great day job/career.

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Anonymous wrote:New poster - I haven't read the entire thread, but the answer is no. Men don't care about a woman's salary, job title or, my favorite absurdity, her "professional accomplishments."

We as men do not view women as providers the way women view us. It's simply not part of the attraction or calculation for us.

A woman who's crazy irresponsible in how she handles money is a huge red flag, but what she does for a living or how much she makes doesn't matter one wit.

+ A million

Looks, looks, and looks barring any big red flags.

Once you pass a threshold of things like personality, etc. It is all about looks.

+1 sexy a** women don’t need an income

BS. if this were true, you'd all be married to hot girls who work at the mall. Or the girl who washes your hair. Or any other number of hot dull women.

Men with decent financial potential and an ounce of common sense want a woman with either an impressive resume or earning potential. There are literally millions of women in this country who are generically "hot", and men don't want. Because they do in fact care about a women's aspirations/career/financials. They may try and act cool on this thread like they just care about boobs, but it's bullshit. And those that legitimately only married for boobs, in my experience, are pretty damn unfulfilled by their 30s.....

+1. DCUM guys are apparently the rare outliers not participating in assortative dating/mating. It's a thing, and it is more common now than ever. I look at couples all around me and even the young guys in my office and no, they're not marrying for just hot by ANY means. The young guys in particular are repulsed by young women who don't seem to have any drive or ambition and are looking for men to take care of them, and these are guys who are earning good money and in a field where you can earn the big bucks. They're not looking for Hooters waitresses. Now maybe they will end up with a woman who wants to stay at home for a bit when kids are young, that is reasonable, but it's a red flag that would be her expectation from the get-go. There are many attractive (hot) women who also are passionate and driven, why would you settle for the GED hottie who works at the mall kiosk unless you thought that was the best you could do?

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Anonymous wrote:New poster - I haven't read the entire thread, but the answer is no. Men don't care about a woman's salary, job title or, my favorite absurdity, her "professional accomplishments."

We as men do not view women as providers the way women view us. It's simply not part of the attraction or calculation for us.

A woman who's crazy irresponsible in how she handles money is a huge red flag, but what she does for a living or how much she makes doesn't matter one wit.

+ A million

Looks, looks, and looks barring any big red flags.

Once you pass a threshold of things like personality, etc. It is all about looks.

+1 sexy a** women don’t need an income

BS. if this were true, you'd all be married to hot girls who work at the mall. Or the girl who washes your hair. Or any other number of hot dull women.

Men with decent financial potential and an ounce of common sense want a woman with either an impressive resume or earning potential. There are literally millions of women in this country who are generically "hot", and men don't want. Because they do in fact care about a women's aspirations/career/financials. They may try and act cool on this thread like they just care about boobs, but it's bullshit. And those that legitimately only married for boobs, in my experience, are pretty damn unfulfilled by their 30s.....

Anonymous wrote:That’s funny because I’m a woman with similar stats. The bulk i didn’t earn, it’s a trust. My income is about the same.

I won’t date a man who doesn’t earn similar- or could.

I’m very not into being a sugar mama after financially paying off one husband- and I travel often and have a fairly large lifestyle. I don’t need men to pay for anything/buy me anything- but they have to be able to pay their own way to tag along.

Even with my income and rare luck (trust), I deeply feel like my job is to grow and protect that money for my kids, not to splash it around loudly on some man. It’s different meeting when you’re both broke in your 20’s, for me, being wealthy and dating in my 40s has made me way less interested in inviting dead weight into my life. There just wouldn’t be enough respect there, I respect drive and self sufficiency too much to be an attracted to a guy who could be “kept”.

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Anonymous wrote:New poster - I haven't read the entire thread, but the answer is no. Men don't care about a woman's salary, job title or, my favorite absurdity, her "professional accomplishments."

We as men do not view women as providers the way women view us. It's simply not part of the attraction or calculation for us.

A woman who's crazy irresponsible in how she handles money is a huge red flag, but what she does for a living or how much she makes doesn't matter one wit.

+ A million

Looks, looks, and looks barring any big red flags.

Once you pass a threshold of things like personality, etc. It is all about looks.

+1 sexy a** women don’t need an income

BS. if this were true, you'd all be married to hot girls who work at the mall. Or the girl who washes your hair. Or any other number of hot dull women.

Men with decent financial potential and an ounce of common sense want a woman with either an impressive resume or earning potential. There are literally millions of women in this country who are generically "hot", and men don't want. Because they do in fact care about a women's aspirations/career/financials. They may try and act cool on this thread like they just care about boobs, but it's bullshit. And those that legitimately only married for boobs, in my experience, are pretty damn unfulfilled by their 30s.....

Wow, a woman declaring what is important to men. How surprising...

We don't care about your job, Darlene, or how much money you make. We care about attraction to you and who you are as people, that's it.

Attraction is relative and unique to an individual. That you think your resume is going to get you a date, let alone laid, is laughable.

Good luck with that. Signed, a man.

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Wow, a woman declaring what is important to men. How surprising...

We don't care about your job, Darlene, or how much money you make. We care about attraction to you and who you are as people, that's it.

Attraction is relative and unique to an individual. That you think your resume is going to get you a date, let alone laid, is laughable.

Good luck with that. Signed, a man.

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Anonymous wrote:New poster - I haven't read the entire thread, but the answer is no. Men don't care about a woman's salary, job title or, my favorite absurdity, her "professional accomplishments."

We as men do not view women as providers the way women view us. It's simply not part of the attraction or calculation for us.

A woman who's crazy irresponsible in how she handles money is a huge red flag, but what she does for a living or how much she makes doesn't matter one wit.

+ A million

Looks, looks, and looks barring any big red flags.

Once you pass a threshold of things like personality, etc. It is all about looks.

+1 sexy a** women don’t need an income

BS. if this were true, you'd all be married to hot girls who work at the mall. Or the girl who washes your hair. Or any other number of hot dull women.

Men with decent financial potential and an ounce of common sense want a woman with either an impressive resume or earning potential. There are literally millions of women in this country who are generically "hot", and men don't want. Because they do in fact care about a women's aspirations/career/financials. They may try and act cool on this thread like they just care about boobs, but it's bullshit. And those that legitimately only married for boobs, in my experience, are pretty damn unfulfilled by their 30s.....

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:New poster - I haven't read the entire thread, but the answer is no. Men don't care about a woman's salary, job title or, my favorite absurdity, her "professional accomplishments."

We as men do not view women as providers the way women view us. It's simply not part of the attraction or calculation for us.

A woman who's crazy irresponsible in how she handles money is a huge red flag, but what she does for a living or how much she makes doesn't matter one wit.

+ A million

Looks, looks, and looks barring any big red flags.

Once you pass a threshold of things like personality, etc. It is all about looks.

+1 sexy a** women don’t need an income

BS. if this were true, you'd all be married to hot girls who work at the mall. Or the girl who washes your hair. Or any other number of hot dull women.

Men with decent financial potential and an ounce of common sense want a woman with either an impressive resume or earning potential. There are literally millions of women in this country who are generically "hot", and men don't want. Because they do in fact care about a women's aspirations/career/financials. They may try and act cool on this thread like they just care about boobs, but it's bullshit. And those that legitimately only married for boobs, in my experience, are pretty damn unfulfilled by their 30s.....

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:New poster - I haven't read the entire thread, but the answer is no. Men don't care about a woman's salary, job title or, my favorite absurdity, her "professional accomplishments."

We as men do not view women as providers the way women view us. It's simply not part of the attraction or calculation for us.

A woman who's crazy irresponsible in how she handles money is a huge red flag, but what she does for a living or how much she makes doesn't matter one wit.

+ A million

Looks, looks, and looks barring any big red flags.

Once you pass a threshold of things like personality, etc. It is all about looks.

+1 sexy a** women don’t need an income

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:New poster - I haven't read the entire thread, but the answer is no. Men don't care about a woman's salary, job title or, my favorite absurdity, her "professional accomplishments."

We as men do not view women as providers the way women view us. It's simply not part of the attraction or calculation for us.

A woman who's crazy irresponsible in how she handles money is a huge red flag, but what she does for a living or how much she makes doesn't matter one wit.

+ A million

Looks, looks, and looks barring any big red flags.

Once you pass a threshold of things like personality, etc. It is all about looks.