You know what, Whitney, Heather and Meredith?

It would have cost you nothing, and it would have taken you two seconds to say: "Jen, I hear you. I understand that being labeled with the words 'aggressive' and 'violent' are way more loaded and consequential then they are for me. I will try to find more productive ways to talk to you about your behavior and actions when I have a problem with you."

Whitney especially calling her husband to say "oh she's bringing up the race stuff" was stupid. YEAH, using the word "aggressive" toward a woman of color is pretty loaded. Just calm down, listen, and find some room to have a better conversation about it.

-White woman

Anonymous wrote:Lets be clear anyone who goes on these shows are damaged goods looking for answers.

They of course will not get them and chances are their life may spiral in the wrong direction as many have shown us from other shows.

It is a sad state of affairs for all these women.

I think some just go on to promote their businesses.

Lets be clear anyone who goes on these shows are damaged goods looking for answers.

They of course will not get them and chances are their life may spiral in the wrong direction as many have shown us from other shows.

It is a sad state of affairs for all these women.

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Anonymous wrote:Mary talking about her marriage was just so weird. She was asked if she loved him, she started talking about Chanel bags. She is so oddly cast.

+1

She makes me uncomfortable. Something about her situation makes me feel like she has Stockholm Syndrome or something happened where she was sort of trapped to marry this man. It just is quite strange and sad.

Agree that she's completely incoherent. She also denies having a problem with black men outside of 7-Eleven, by going on to say that she prefers white men. Like Robert. Who is black. But light skinned. She's a complete moron and a terrible person.

there is a lot of stuff online about how her church is a cult, how nasty she is to the parishioners-really bad stuff, how she schemed to take it over, that she steals their money, and she absolutely was married when her grandmother passed. People think she was starting up with her step-grandfather before her grandmother died.

Yes. Couldn’t even clearly state what race her husband is. There is something really fishy with her.

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Anonymous wrote:Mary talking about her marriage was just so weird. She was asked if she loved him, she started talking about Chanel bags. She is so oddly cast.

+1

She makes me uncomfortable. Something about her situation makes me feel like she has Stockholm Syndrome or something happened where she was sort of trapped to marry this man. It just is quite strange and sad.

Agree that she's completely incoherent. She also denies having a problem with black men outside of 7-Eleven, by going on to say that she prefers white men. Like Robert. Who is black. But light skinned. She's a complete moron and a terrible person.

there is a lot of stuff online about how her church is a cult, how nasty she is to the parishioners-really bad stuff, how she schemed to take it over, that she steals their money, and she absolutely was married when her grandmother passed. People think she was starting up with her step-grandfather before her grandmother died.

Anonymous wrote:Mary talking about her marriage was just so weird. She was asked if she loved him, she started talking about Chanel bags. She is so oddly cast.

+1

She makes me uncomfortable. Something about her situation makes me feel like she has Stockholm Syndrome or something happened where she was sort of trapped to marry this man. It just is quite strange and sad.

Mary talking about her marriage was just so weird. She was asked if she loved him, she started talking about Chanel bags. She is so oddly cast.

Online they exorciated Brooks for making a big deal out of vagina gate. They did not properly address it at the reunion. He is a POS.

it's weird how Mary keeps trying to get into thick of things when she was hardly on the show.

I think some major sh*t must have gone down post-show to make Heather so furious with Lisa. We don't know what it is.

I thought it was telling when she said how she knew she was being so mean right now and that it's a defense mechanism for what Lisa has done.

She has always seemed self-aware and her saying yeah I know how I'm acting makes me still root for her a bit.

I agree this is a hard group to warm up to. The reunion I felt was very revealing, it made me realize how desperately need he Heather is and it’s extremely offputting. It’s always about how poorly she’s being treated and how no one likes her and how people are choosing other people over her. Does she not realize that even for a potential partner that is a major turn off?

What grown woman also uses the term you don’t “show up for me” that’s something my 16 year old says! It’s like she gets something in her head and she keep saying it over and over.

I just can’t with Whitney I get weird vibes from her and that baby voice is too much. Somehow I like Lisa there’s something about her I feel is authentic she is who she is and she doesn’t apologize for it and I have no problem with that.

Meredith is OK she seems to work hard at trying to come up with a certain persona it must be exhausting because I find it stuffy and phony.

Mary’s definitely a little crazy but at the reunion I realize she seem to be one of the more levelheaded ones… Go figure


Jen is a firecracker and I’m not a huge fan but I have softened on her a little because I feel like she’s deeply hurt about many things going on in her life so I’m trying to give her a break

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Anonymous wrote:Why is Heather acting like such a beast at the reunion? I don't think Lisa has done anything particularly horrible. A few dust-ups that seemed to get reconciled...so why the hate?

It seems like she got a lot of early press and fan attention, and now thinks she is the It Girl of SLC. Well...not if you keep acting like that at the reunion. Gross.

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It’s a harsh word but somehow your right beast seems appropriate I feel like she is insanely jealous and threatened by Lisa and Meredith. Personally find her so offputting she comes across unbelievably masculine aggressive and harsh. If she could tone it down several notches and come across a little more feminine and soft or maybe it would make her more likable

I really liked her this season and didn’t like Lisa but the reunion has made me switch. Heather is acting like a teenager (which given her need to be liked after getting married so young makes sense) but it’s off putting. And there are lots of voices on this show I can’t stand: Meredith, Lisa, Whitney and Mary. Their accents, intonations and voices are awful.

Anonymous wrote:Why is Heather acting like such a beast at the reunion? I don't think Lisa has done anything particularly horrible. A few dust-ups that seemed to get reconciled...so why the hate?

It seems like she got a lot of early press and fan attention, and now thinks she is the It Girl of SLC. Well...not if you keep acting like that at the reunion. Gross.

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It’s a harsh word but somehow your right beast seems appropriate I feel like she is insanely jealous and threatened by Lisa and Meredith. Personally find her so offputting she comes across unbelievably masculine aggressive and harsh. If she could tone it down several notches and come across a little more feminine and soft or maybe it would make her more likable

Why is Heather acting like such a beast at the reunion? I don't think Lisa has done anything particularly horrible. A few dust-ups that seemed to get reconciled...so why the hate?

It seems like she got a lot of early press and fan attention, and now thinks she is the It Girl of SLC. Well...not if you keep acting like that at the reunion. Gross.

Heather and her pity party along with her Madonna gloves just make my skin crawl I’ve never seen a grown woman who feel so sorry for herself and six attention the way that she does. And if I hear her say you don’t show up for me one more time I will throw a rock at my TV😀😀😀

Heather's face shape and contortions are very in keeping with that happens when someone has undergone years of botox/fillers which clearly she has. It literally changes your face shape and not for the better.

If you look at people like the infamous cat lady or Melamine Griffith you will see a similar shape/effect as you see on Heather's face.

She is way too dramatic, needy thirsty and desperate for my taste. She seems like she needs an IV of attention from those around her not sure why if its major insecurity or what but its not a good look. She seems nice enough but just "too much"

She could also really use a makeover/stylist. That pink dress with the Madonna gloves left me scratching may head along with Meredith's ridiculous face mask.