Anonymous wrote:so where is OP? wish she would give an update

Oh, s/he’s trolling in other threads.

so where is OP? wish she would give an update

I’d be out, honestly.

It's not what you do when people are watching, it's what you do when you think no one is watching that matters. Your husband thought no one would see and he lied to that woman about his marital status and, ultimately, you. I would watch, gather intel and wait. What's done in the dark....