Anonymous wrote:“Seem”

Is the opportune word in the subject header

It sure is. I know many that "seem" this way and their husbands were in fact cheating One such woman was on another board I used to frequent and sounded a lot like the women in this thread. and then poof! I wonder how she's doing now, she kind of disappeared after the affair, which I understand. An affair is devastating, but I'm sure it's harder when you've built yourself up to be this perfect person "who would never let an affair happen to her", it's got to sting that much more.

Anonymous wrote:Wow, some posters are getting really triggered over the thought of a demanding or confident woman. I wonder why that is.

+1000

Wow, some posters are getting really triggered over the thought of a demanding or confident woman. I wonder why that is.

Anonymous wrote:They have standards and good self esteem.

This and they aren't ambiguous about what they want, no guessing games required.

The number of sad doormat women on DCUM is a stark reminder that you should never really trust the advice you get on here. Plenty of women who made bad, bad life choices, and resent it, but will come on here and give "advice" urging other women to make the same bad choices. They also are filled with generalized anger because their lives suck so they write nasty responses.

It's sad and kind of funny at the same time

Why is it so difficult for many here to believe that loving, kind and faithful men exist? "Demanding" could easily be swapped for "discerning" or "takes no sh!t". Perhaps the decent men are drawn to women who know what they want and who don't waste their time on guys who can't deliver? Being loved by such a woman is surely a feather in their hat, so to speak.

Anonymous wrote:Meanwhile, several mellow, fun, and easygoing women I know have been divorced, cheated on, and treated like crap.
Is this a Thing?
By demanding I don't mean bitchy so much as they rule the roost.

Because you keep picking the wrong men with poor character.

“Seem”

Is the opportune word in the subject header

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Anonymous wrote:I’m very demanding. I always got what I wanted in relationships before my husband, and do now too.

A guy who wasn’t cool with that never would have dated me or would have broken it off. Actually one of the guys I dated but broke up with quickly, we broke up because he didn’t like how demanding and high-expectations I am. He is a chronic cheater now.

But IME a lot of men actually want a demanding woman.

X100!

Same. I've always been the one breaking up with men. I tend to boss guys around like they're kids- it's just my go-to style. I'm also very nurturing to make up for it. IDK but men love it. I have never ever ever had an issue getting men and my friends are always amazed at the quality of guys I get.

Guys dont like doormats! It's not sexy!

Gross. You sound insufferable and so full of yourself.

Keep being a doormat! See how it works for ya!

I love my life!

Which is why you have to come to anonymous message boards broadcasting how happy u are....ok

Yep! Why not? Believe it or not not everyone comes to message boards to spew their misery. Sorry your life sucks but it's your own fault!

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Anonymous wrote:I’m very demanding. I always got what I wanted in relationships before my husband, and do now too.

A guy who wasn’t cool with that never would have dated me or would have broken it off. Actually one of the guys I dated but broke up with quickly, we broke up because he didn’t like how demanding and high-expectations I am. He is a chronic cheater now.

But IME a lot of men actually want a demanding woman.

X100!

Same. I've always been the one breaking up with men. I tend to boss guys around like they're kids- it's just my go-to style. I'm also very nurturing to make up for it. IDK but men love it. I have never ever ever had an issue getting men and my friends are always amazed at the quality of guys I get.

Guys dont like doormats! It's not sexy!

Gross. You sound insufferable and so full of yourself.

Keep being a doormat! See how it works for ya!

I love my life!

Which is why you have to come to anonymous message boards broadcasting how happy u are....ok

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I’m very demanding. I always got what I wanted in relationships before my husband, and do now too.

A guy who wasn’t cool with that never would have dated me or would have broken it off. Actually one of the guys I dated but broke up with quickly, we broke up because he didn’t like how demanding and high-expectations I am. He is a chronic cheater now.

But IME a lot of men actually want a demanding woman.

X100!

Same. I've always been the one breaking up with men. I tend to boss guys around like they're kids- it's just my go-to style. I'm also very nurturing to make up for it. IDK but men love it. I have never ever ever had an issue getting men and my friends are always amazed at the quality of guys I get.

Guys dont like doormats! It's not sexy!

Gross. You sound insufferable and so full of yourself.

Keep being a doormat! See how it works for ya!

I love my life!

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Anonymous wrote:There is so much projection in this thread towards women that are in great relationships with amazing men and being treated well certain women made bad life choices and they're mad that not everyone else did!

No. No. No no no no.
Women do not make bad life choices men are dogs.

Ummm no. If you make the life choice to stay with a dog, that’s on you. Other women demanded higher standards...

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Anonymous wrote:I’m very demanding. I always got what I wanted in relationships before my husband, and do now too.

A guy who wasn’t cool with that never would have dated me or would have broken it off. Actually one of the guys I dated but broke up with quickly, we broke up because he didn’t like how demanding and high-expectations I am. He is a chronic cheater now.

But IME a lot of men actually want a demanding woman.

X100!

Same. I've always been the one breaking up with men. I tend to boss guys around like they're kids- it's just my go-to style. I'm also very nurturing to make up for it. IDK but men love it. I have never ever ever had an issue getting men and my friends are always amazed at the quality of guys I get.

Guys dont like doormats! It's not sexy!

Gross. You sound insufferable and so full of yourself.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I’m very demanding. I always got what I wanted in relationships before my husband, and do now too.

A guy who wasn’t cool with that never would have dated me or would have broken it off. Actually one of the guys I dated but broke up with quickly, we broke up because he didn’t like how demanding and high-expectations I am. He is a chronic cheater now.

But IME a lot of men actually want a demanding woman.

X100!

Same. I've always been the one breaking up with men. I tend to boss guys around like they're kids- it's just my go-to style. I'm also very nurturing to make up for it. IDK but men love it. I have never ever ever had an issue getting men and my friends are always amazed at the quality of guys I get.

Guys dont like doormats! It's not sexy!

Anonymous wrote:I’m very demanding. I always got what I wanted in relationships before my husband, and do now too.

A guy who wasn’t cool with that never would have dated me or would have broken it off. Actually one of the guys I dated but broke up with quickly, we broke up because he didn’t like how demanding and high-expectations I am. He is a chronic cheater now.

But IME a lot of men actually want a demanding woman.

X100!