Anonymous wrote:I wonder if this crisis will end some of the worst forms of "intensive parenting." When i was a kid we could not afford camps. In the summer we just ran around the neighborhood with our friends. Biked, picnics, hide and seek, etc. Our parents basically ignored us: we just had to come home for dinner. That was the norm then. Maybe, of necessity, it will become the norm again.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:15:41
Sounds like you’ve identified the things in your life that need to change. You set your a life totally dependent on 2 incomes & away from all family. Sounds like choices have consequences...
I am so glad you are so rich and smug!
On the contrary. We made tough choices to manage the needs of our family. Walked away from many things we felt entitled to, so we could accept 100% responsibility for our kids 100% of the time.
If we made more $$, we’d have more kids. If I’d stayed in a high demand job- we’d have fewer kids ect. If we lived closer to family, that would have played in too. And smug, no. Just tired of parents blaming their work/life balance on no one picking up more of the ‘life’.
Anonymous wrote:I think DCPS is doing the best they can. I am not a fan of Bowser, but she has done very well. FCPS started this week! So whatever your issues are, can you imagine being in a situation with nothing from DCPS for the last 5 weeks? It can always be worse. It can always be better. I think it is up to each individual family to decide how to make the best of the situation. Think more about positive and constructive solutions than dwelling on what angers and frustrates you. So when school ends, do what you need to make it work. We all have choices.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:15:41
Sounds like you’ve identified the things in your life that need to change. You set your a life totally dependent on 2 incomes & away from all family. Sounds like choices have consequences...
I am so glad you are so rich and smug!
On the contrary. We made tough choices to manage the needs of our family. Walked away from many things we felt entitled to, so we could accept 100% responsibility for our kids 100% of the time.
If we made more $$, we’d have more kids. If I’d stayed in a high demand job- we’d have fewer kids ect. If we lived closer to family, that would have played in too. And smug, no. Just tired of parents blaming their work/life balance on no one picking up more of the ‘life’.
Anonymous wrote:I don’t know, DCPS is looking pretty good after I read this article about Fairfax’s difficulties with distance learning. Their kids JUST started last week, four weeks after the schools were shut down!
https://www.washingtonpost.com/local/education/fairfax-schools-online-learning-blackboard/2020/04/18/3db6b19c-80b5-11ea-9040-68981f488eed_story.html
Anonymous wrote:Umm, be a parent and take care of your kids...
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Umm, be a parent and take care of your kids...
Not a troll. Just had the number of kids I could be 100% responsible for 100% of the time. And, took a career shift/salary cut/lifestyle down grade that made managing kids & career possible. Interesting that all the rage is at schools for not being open to dump your kids. And not at employers who are demanding full time work while you are at home with kids. We prioritize what we value
+1.
I wonder if the coronavirus will help US society as a whole to more fully see all the trade-offs we make - some do it very consciously, but I think many if not most would opt for something else. I for one would welcome a society that is far more human and family friendly and that prioritizes humans over corporations - let's make sure everybody has housing, a living wage and reliable, good healthcare. My feeling is that we need to tend to some of these basics before society becomes even more stratified and power is even more consolidated.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Umm, be a parent and take care of your kids...
Not a troll. Just had the number of kids I could be 100% responsible for 100% of the time. And, took a career shift/salary cut/lifestyle down grade that made managing kids & career possible. Interesting that all the rage is at schools for not being open to dump your kids. And not at employers who are demanding full time work while you are at home with kids. We prioritize what we value
+1.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:15:41
Sounds like you’ve identified the things in your life that need to change. You set your a life totally dependent on 2 incomes & away from all family. Sounds like choices have consequences...
I am so glad you are so rich and smug!
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I think DCPS is doing the best they can. I am not a fan of Bowser, but she has done very well. FCPS started this week! So whatever your issues are, can you imagine being in a situation with nothing from DCPS for the last 5 weeks? It can always be worse. It can always be better. I think it is up to each individual family to decide how to make the best of the situation. Think more about positive and constructive solutions than dwelling on what angers and frustrates you. So when school ends, do what you need to make it work. We all have choices.
And PG never even really got off the ground! Agree DCPS has done a good job considering Fairfax, PG, and VA!