Anonymous wrote:My husband and I and our children are visiting his parents on our winter break. We arrived on Sunday and sitting on the kitchen counter was a Valentines card from my FIL to my MIL. I peaked at it! Guilty! The card was a multi-page humor card but written in the margins were some of the sweetest and most romantic things I’ve ever read. It is very clear their romance is still alive after almost 40 years. I’d love to know their magic sauce! I did tell my husband that his father could really teach him something.
That was an asshole thing to say to him. So what are you doing to keep the romance alive?...wishing and criticizing?
Here's a hint: Your inlaws still have a good marriage because they don't do what you just did.