Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:OP here. I’ve decided not to get the IUD and file for divorce instead. Thanks to everyone for your insight. Best wishes.
I've always felt the husbands not wanting a vasectomy are just wanting to leave their options open for when they divorce a woman and find a younger chick who wants kids.
Just the opposite for me. I knew my marriage wasn't going to last and was more than willing to get a V so I didn't accidentally get her pregnant again, and when I was ready to see other women, there wasn't going to be any issues with pregnancy. Once we separated and she started dating, she had to go get herself fixed.