Anonymous wrote:I'm just here to read the comments from women talking about their boobs.

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Anonymous wrote:I am returning to the dating scene after some years of marriage. Do men expect women to be wearing sexy lingerie if a good date leads to some intimacy?

I find it hard to believe anyone over the age of 22 needs to ask this question. You don't need to be wearing crotchless panties and thigh highs, but if you think you might be getting undressed later, for god's sake put some thought into it. Journelle for instance just has lots of nice everyday underwear. I have this in a few colors and would wear something like this on an every day basis (going to the store, school etc). I know not everyone can get away with something like this every day, but it doesn't take a rocket scientist to know you should wear something like this on a date.

https://www.journelle.com/products/journelle-isabel-balconette-bra-104821?color=1009

Either you’re 22, have implants or have had a breast lift, or you‘ve never had kids and have naturally small breasts. Because I’ve had 2 kids and I’m in my mid-30’s and that would offer “the girls” absolutely NO support or coverage.

NP. I'm 42, a 32D, and have this bra. It's great and definitely supportive. Admittedly I have no kids, but I'm hardly a member of the IBTC.

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Anonymous wrote:NP. I'm a married female. My DH does not care at all about lingerie. I'm buying it for me but I don't really know what I'm doing. I've recently bought some flattering panties from Soma and Aerie (their lacier stuff, less sporty looking) for everyday wear. I like the idea of unlined bras (I have a couple). Any recommendations for someone who wears a 34D? With matching panties that won't completely break the bank?

If I had 34D's I wouldn't be hiding them in the privacy of my bedroom. Save the money!

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Anonymous wrote:I am returning to the dating scene after some years of marriage. Do men expect women to be wearing sexy lingerie if a good date leads to some intimacy?

I find it hard to believe anyone over the age of 22 needs to ask this question. You don't need to be wearing crotchless panties and thigh highs, but if you think you might be getting undressed later, for god's sake put some thought into it. Journelle for instance just has lots of nice everyday underwear. I have this in a few colors and would wear something like this on an every day basis (going to the store, school etc). I know not everyone can get away with something like this every day, but it doesn't take a rocket scientist to know you should wear something like this on a date.

https://www.journelle.com/products/journelle-isabel-balconette-bra-104821?color=1009

Either you’re 22, have implants or have had a breast lift, or you‘ve never had kids and have naturally small breasts. Because I’ve had 2 kids and I’m in my mid-30’s and that would offer “the girls” absolutely NO support or coverage.

Anonymous wrote:NP. I'm a married female. My DH does not care at all about lingerie. I'm buying it for me but I don't really know what I'm doing. I've recently bought some flattering panties from Soma and Aerie (their lacier stuff, less sporty looking) for everyday wear. I like the idea of unlined bras (I have a couple). Any recommendations for someone who wears a 34D? With matching panties that won't completely break the bank?

Anonymous wrote:NP. I'm a married female. My DH does not care at all about lingerie. I'm buying it for me but I don't really know what I'm doing. I've recently bought some flattering panties from Soma and Aerie (their lacier stuff, less sporty looking) for everyday wear. I like the idea of unlined bras (I have a couple). Any recommendations for someone who wears a 34D? With matching panties that won't completely break the bank?

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Anonymous wrote:Push ups are not sexy. It is a bunch of foam and padding. Plus you don't have much to "push up" not a dig, just what it is. Branch out and try something sexy while showcases what you naturally have

Wish my husband agreed with you but he’s not particularly interested in what I naturally have. He likes the cleavage even if it’s fake. C’est la vie.

Also, can someone explain to me what a balconette bra is?

Don't think of it like that... he's a boob guy... he just likes to see your boobs "enhanced" (not necessarily augmented). Its basically the wrapping on the present, you know.
Kind of like legs guys. They'd be happy enough if a lady just threw on a pair of pantyhose or stockings... and nothing else. Just that.

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Anonymous wrote:I am returning to the dating scene after some years of marriage. Do men expect women to be wearing sexy lingerie if a good date leads to some intimacy?

I find it hard to believe anyone over the age of 22 needs to ask this question. You don't need to be wearing crotchless panties and thigh highs, but if you think you might be getting undressed later, for god's sake put some thought into it. Journelle for instance just has lots of nice everyday underwear. I have this in a few colors and would wear something like this on an every day basis (going to the store, school etc). I know not everyone can get away with something like this every day, but it doesn't take a rocket scientist to know you should wear something like this on a date.

https://www.journelle.com/products/journelle-isabel-balconette-bra-104821?color=1009

Either you’re 22, have implants or have had a breast lift, or you‘ve never had kids and have naturally small breasts. Because I’ve had 2 kids and I’m in my mid-30’s and that would offer “the girls” absolutely NO support or coverage.

The poster said somewhere she is a 32/34A

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Anonymous wrote:I am returning to the dating scene after some years of marriage. Do men expect women to be wearing sexy lingerie if a good date leads to some intimacy?

I find it hard to believe anyone over the age of 22 needs to ask this question. You don't need to be wearing crotchless panties and thigh highs, but if you think you might be getting undressed later, for god's sake put some thought into it. Journelle for instance just has lots of nice everyday underwear. I have this in a few colors and would wear something like this on an every day basis (going to the store, school etc). I know not everyone can get away with something like this every day, but it doesn't take a rocket scientist to know you should wear something like this on a date.

https://www.journelle.com/products/journelle-isabel-balconette-bra-104821?color=1009

Either you’re 22, have implants or have had a breast lift, or you‘ve never had kids and have naturally small breasts. Because I’ve had 2 kids and I’m in my mid-30’s and that would offer “the girls” absolutely NO support or coverage.

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Anonymous wrote:I am returning to the dating scene after some years of marriage. Do men expect women to be wearing sexy lingerie if a good date leads to some intimacy?

I find it hard to believe anyone over the age of 22 needs to ask this question. You don't need to be wearing crotchless panties and thigh highs, but if you think you might be getting undressed later, for god's sake put some thought into it. Journelle for instance just has lots of nice everyday underwear. I have this in a few colors and would wear something like this on an every day basis (going to the store, school etc). I know not everyone can get away with something like this every day, but it doesn't take a rocket scientist to know you should wear something like this on a date.

https://www.journelle.com/products/journelle-isabel-balconette-bra-104821?color=1009

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Anonymous wrote:I’m very self conscious about being naked (other then when in bed with the lights out) so I’m always throwing a robe or a towel on. Last night with the lights on my husband walked in on me while I was standing stark naked in the middle of our bedroom. I made a bee line to the closet but he blocked my way and things progressed very rapidly from there. I could have been wearing a thousand dollars worth of lingerie and not gotten a better response.

Hint: He loves you naked. He loves your body. Don't be so self-conscious about it.